I never had one. My wife's was with her college roommate. They were drunk and horny on a Saturday night when I wasn't able to see my future wife, and her roomie was between boyfriends. They just started feeling each other and it progressed to naked fun on the bed.
The things posted here have reminded me of my two experiments-in-curiosity times, first forty years ago, and then twenty-five years ago. Five times total. First two were curiosity, and three times as an outlet for frustrated married lack of sexual activity. I'd been sucked by true Mistresses of The Art numerous times before and wanted to see what the other side felt like. Since then, and currently, I don't have any particular interest in such activity, but having been there, wouldn't turn one down if offered in a socially secure setting. I remember the details of each, since my emotional preparation was intense. I was the instigator and in control, and there was no swallowing, since I was interested only in the giving pleasure and seeing what it felt like to do it. Frankly, it was as rewarding as hearing a female moaning and jerking as I licked her clit to orgasm. Since essentially, a clitoris and a frenulum are only different in size, except the semen thing. And then, of course, there's all that social stuff to deal with. With all five episodes two were with friends and three with strangers (pre-STDs). The only surprise happened when a younger guy actually squirted and the first pulse hit my throat and there was a gag. But even then I got to learn what it is the ladies mean when they talk about it.
I’ve never been with a woman physically but have had an emotional connection and very strong attraction with two women and wish I’d known this side of myself existed when I was younger. Although I don’t think it was really there then, it’s something I’ve gradually realised over the last couple of years. I hate labels as well and I have to be drawn to their soul and mind as well, gender doesn’t really come into it for me, it’s both a physical and emotional connection regardless.
Can I kindly just give you all a reminder that sex in Hip has to start at 18 or older Please keep to the rules THANK YOU
I hear what you are saying . It is never too late to have that connection I just had a beautiful retired female invite me over for ddrinks I was surprise when I went in her husband was there. We had a few drinks and then s&e asked if I wanted to have sex with them. Five minutes later we were in their bed nude. She had a beautiful body. Big tits and firm . He had about a 6 inch cock. I explained I don't do guys. She said that is fine. She laid me back and she sucked my cock . He mounted her and was fucking her. After a few minutes we reversed roles. Within a few minutes he came in her mouth. She laid me back down and sucked my cock. She hesitated a minute and asked me " can my husband suck your cock" ? I was so hot I just laid back. She crawled on top of me lower her pussy in my face. I minute later I could feel the husband sucking my cock . After about 10 minutes I told I was going to cum . She said let it go. She turned and watch me fill her husband mouth with my cum . She told me it was the first time she watched her husband suck a cock. I must tell I never thought that would happen but it did. They have invited back next week .
Years ago, practicing as a nurse, I pulled my back while stupidly trying to lift a patient by myself. Had to call in sick the next day , could barely walk. Wouldn't you know it, that afternoon a girl I'd been fuck-buddies with for a few months before, calls. Her boyfriend wants to see her get fucked by someone with a bigger dick than he has. She said she thought of me! I managed to very slowly and carefully ease myself into my car and to her place. All I could do was lie on the bed while she sucked me and he fucked her from behind. It wasn't exactly his fantasy, but he liked sitting and watching her play with and suck my dick, encouraging her to go deeper, etc. Then he got behind her and fucked her. All the while I was in pain, but did manage to come for her. He was pleased, had her show it to him in her mouth and swallow. .....And I crept ever so slowly to my car and home. Talk about a missed opportunity!
As long as you and her are happy, that's all that matters. You're her boyfriend and she's your girlfriend. Enjoy. It's NOT for others to define your relationship OR your sexuality/orientation.
Mine were mostly experimentation in the days of awakening. Won't say the age per the mods' rules. But mostly it was chatting, comparing penises, and truth or dare type stuff - no real contact but fun nonetheless.
Yes a friend and I pulled each other way back then. My first sex experience of all. He had a rock hard 8.5 inches, thick and veiny with a rubbery foreskin. What a time that was. I thought I was small and every other guy was hung like that. I pulled him until he caught his come in his hand. Then stood and enjoyed it as he pulled me off and caught my come in his hand. I think he just wanted it to be easy to dispose of unnoticed. He didn't figure how much come we'd pump out. I've loved cocks ever since.
First same sex experience was as part of a MFM with my first wife. Not sure who was more surprised when I went down on him, me, her or him!
First same sex experience was with the cousin I grew up with. We were used to being naked around each other, then it progressed to masturbating together, then to oral and eventually to anal. My aunt and uncle were swingers and actually encouraged us to experiment with each other when we were old enough.