First love

lol
mooney your awesome!
that ones going down in my memory bank!

 

Yes, you get over it the second you fall in love again. Provided that the second love is true. I know because it happened to me yesterday.

 

eh, i got over it. he is totally eclipsed by the love i have now. and if'n my first love was so frickin great, he shouldn't have been my 'first' love, he shoulda been my last love. right?

hell, i even forgot the name of some guy i used to live with... so funny, i was looking through old photos and was like, 'what WAS that guy's name?' not a guy i 'loved' just some guy i was shackin up with in college - lol!!!

 

Sorry...I can't resist saying this ! After checking out your pic in your gallery, I kind of think you should be giving OTHER people the hangover..and walk away never in need of an aspirin!

 

I agree, I thought I loved my first bf, but we broke up and life went on, then I started dating a new man, really fell in love, I mean, it didn't work out and I have totally accepted that and moved on, but someday..., I think we had a connection that will bring us back to eachother when we're both ready, If not, I am happy loving new people and learning from him...

 

same here. well...with my second...love...if youd call it that

 

I am still with my first love.

 

i didnt get over my first real love either and its 2 years ago. he was 17 back then and i was 14(and got between the relly 15), he was somekinda addicted to marihuana and heroin and tho it wasnt really a big barier between us from the start. however, it got a barier, because it destroyed him physically and me mentally so long untill we didnt break up(tho then the REAL probles started) and now we dont really have contact anymore(we're friends, tho we dont speak to eachother a lot)

 

No you don't get over it, well I didn't anyway. First love (and only love) at the age of 13.........nothing more to say really.

 

HEY
Im over my first love.
OVER OVER OVER.
maybe it was never love.
But Im happy to say I am 100% free of her now!
Yippppppeeeeee

 

If you have to be free of it...it wasn't love! Or at least not at the end.

 

hmm.. i cut off all the contacts with my first love..
I found out that Ive been blind, which was disturbing me way too much, so i did the right thing.
And Im happy i did it the more dudes ive had in my life the more picky ive become.. :O

 

68 weak-minded losers, so far.

 

ROFL

good one.

 

71??

Damn, no wonder this country is in a state of depression.

There's this many pathetic souls wondering around just in here.

 

I said yes .... because I've experienced so many different kinds of love.

My first 'love' was puppy love with a sexy blonde chiselled god of a man. Who was the stupidest, biggest asshole in the world.

My first real love was a guy who I was head over heels for, and ended up fucking me up badly.

I am over both of them, but fondly remember the good times.

 

I think there is a difference in "getting over" it as in not liking the memory and "getting over" it as in still being head over heels for the person--like you'd never love anyone else more.

My wife DESTROYS my "first love" in every conceiveable fashion. I have no reason whatsoever to not "get over it". I got over it before I even met my wife.

The question was "Do you ever really STOP LOVING them?" Not if you are speaking of "love as a human", but the romantic, swooning shit is WAAAYYY over and I don't even blink if I see her now.

I am WELL over it and do not LOVE her any more or less than I love you or my dog.

 

Hmmm...what was her name again ???

 

Well at least we know you would put some food and water out for her.

 

Some times...that's all you can do. Fate..their attitude...or maybe it's all they deserve.
An exlover must act in good coscience. Gallant where possible....just where demanded