First Kiss

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by CaperRick69, Mar 19, 2024.

  1. CaperRick69

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    I seen the first girl ever I kissed the other day, I mean full make out, with tongue kind of thing. lol

    Got me thinking about the experience.
    I was 14ish, living in a rural community with small class size, I went to school with the same kids since primary and had pretty much no interest in any of those girls.

    Me and some of my friends started going to a youth rec centre in the next community over, 20 minutes away, they had a pool table, arcade game or 2, and on Friday nights they had dances.
    We made some new friends, danced a little, the odd time someone would sneak a little booze. Good times.
    Anyway, one night, this girl came over to me and took my hand and walked me to the dance floor, we danced a bit, then slow danced and she pulled me in really close and eventually we made out. We danced and made out a few times that night.
    What really gets me about this experience is that we never spoke to each other... at all. not before, not after. NEVER. I didn't even know her name until one of my friends told me.
    We only went there a few more times and I didn't see her there.
    Turned out that she had an on and off boyfriend at the time, who she actually went on to marry haha.

    Anyway, I assume it was because of her confidence or something, I've only ever really been attracted to girls that sort of look like her. haha. Shapely I guess you could say, not huge but not slim by any means. My wife actually kind of looks like her lol.

    This was 24 years ago. I still live where I grew up and she still lives 20 minutes away, I see her now and then, she's divorced with a couple of kids. She gives me a little smile if we walk past eachother. Still have never spoken a single word with the woman lol.

    Was this a typical first kiss situation? My friends all got girlfriends and eventually made out with them.

    I don't know who needed to hear this, but it's a memory that I can't really talk to anyone about and had to get it out haha.
    Thanks for reading.
     
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  2. Jamie28London

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    My first proper kiss, or snog as we called it back then was in the alleyway behind my old house where I grew up. Must've been about 14 too, it was with my girlfriend. She was very petite and had the most kissable lips you have ever seen, very pretty face.
    When I started kissing her, she kissed me back and it became more passionate, I swear I got the most instant erection I have ever had before or since. It was awesome. After that I couldn't wait to kiss her again, it was amazing, I craved her after that. But as with most childhood romances it never lasted, but gave me practice I suppose.
     
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  3. Andy Schumer

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    A nice experience, overall nothing weird about it. Have you told your wife? Considering both of you together have odds of crossing paths again. And maybe you already did.
     
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  4. CaperRick69

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    Yea, wife knows about it., She's actually kind of friends with a sister to this girl.
    We've crossed paths with her while together, wife grabs my hand and kind of watches her walk past lol.
    Wife's a little bit a jealous type, she almost got in a fist fight over me with a girl in college, scared her off and she didnt talk to me anymore. I didn't even know this one was interested in me. Probably a good thing, she was a couple of years older than me and ridiculously good looking, would have just ruined my relationship with my now wife.
     
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    We were 15 in the back seat of a friend's car. He and his date were making out in the front seat, so Lynn forced me to kiss her. She was experienced. I had never kissed a girl. She wrote in her diary that it was "awful." Fortunately, she was patient and a good teacher. We got married almost 8 years later.
     
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