Share your stories of your first gay experiences or encounters. I have only had one, while in a straight relationship I met a guy on craigslist, met up with him and gave him a bj in my car and swallowed. That is all I've ever done. I want to go further though. Including visiting a local gay sauna but I'm worried about someone seeing me who knows me or my gf.
Mine was when my friend started feeling me up at a sleep over. I was so surprised but it felt so good I just never tried to stop him. It got to where he had pulled my underwear down and he was just stroking me. I had just reached over to return the favor when our other friend seemed to be waking up. That put a quick halt to the activity until the following day. That is a summer I’ll never forget. Always loved the ladies but I would still let him do what he used to do today.
My best friend and I stumbled across his uncle's extensive porn collection. We were 15 and had nothing better to do after school than watch Nina Hartley and friends getting naked and nasty. One day we were talking about how good those blowjobs must have felt, so we agreed to exchange oral sex. He was a girthy 8 inches, and felt huge in my mouth. In less than five minutes I was swallowing his load. He took me in his mouth next. It wasn't long before my fluids were running down his chin. That began three years of oral, and eventually anal sex with each other. The only time we stopped was when I was dating a girl for about 6 months. After we graduated we went our separate ways. He joined the military, I went to college, and eventually married my wife. He's currently in a committed gay relationship. He's still the only male partner I've ever had.
I was taken advantage of when I was around 7 or 8 by the next door neighbor who around 14. I sucked cock and experianced anal play for the first time. It became a daily routine for about 2 years until they moved away. To be completely honest I had a great time and do not regret what happened at all. HOWEVER... I DO NOT CONDONE WHAT HAPPENED IN ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM. WHAT HAPPENED WAS AWFUL AND SHOULD NEVER HAPPEN!!! Not trying to glorify what happened just being honest. If mods would rather remove please do so I understand.
So I've always fantasised about sucking dick and got the chance to try it when I worked away from home. I was away for up to 4 months at a time. Basically a fellow crewman who I built a friendship with over the years walked in on me watching porn and jerking off in my cabin. Nothing happened and he left. We spoke about it afterwards and I think he was more embarrassed than I was initially. Fast forward a week and whilst I'm in the sauna we had, he came and joined me and told me that he'd been thinking about it and had desires to try some things out and I told him I'd been the same way but never followed it through. So we agreed to become each others first. Started out with just giving each other bj's most days after we had finished working. I'll never forget the feeling and the taste of having his dick in my mouth for the first time, I got really into it and it wasn't long before I was trying to choke his load down. He returned the favour for me too. We spent a lot of time together, trying different things out like 69'n and cum kissing to eventually having anal sex with each other. I loved every minute of it and it lead me to the realisation that I was bisexual and have continued to have relationships with men ever since.
Happy to report that since starting this thread, this year I have done more than just a bj. Met a guy from a forum for the local sauna. After a while messaging and discussing what we would like to do, we met up. We both gave and received oral, anal, and rimming. As well as using some toys. I finished inside him, but sadly when I was on bottom it was hurting a bit so we stopped, just when we stopped was when he came. So I didn't get the chance to feel him cumming inside. We then ended and both agreed, while we didn't regret it, we didn't feel the need to do it again....until we did. We started messaging again and wanted to act out things which we had discussed and didn't get round to. And I really regretted stopping just because he finished. So we arranged to meet 2 more times but both times it fell through. Second time we were going to use the local sauna as a venue but he called everything off after almost being caught by his wife.
When I was youngish, a friend and I played with each other's cock, and pulled each other off. He had a big thick meaty veiny cock and it throbbed as I held it. He invited me to stay over for the weekend, and he and I actually slept in the same bed. His parents were OK with it to my surprise. We pulled each other a bit as we lay there, then he rolled onto his stomach and asked me to get on top of him. I figured he just wanted to feel the head of my cock tease his ass hole, so I went along with it. Surely it wouldn't actually go in. Well, I got in position and slipped around and teased his asshole an then I was in him, 7 inches up to the balls. He just opened easily for my cock. He said not to come in him because he doesn't like it. Sounds like he;s had a few up him. My primal sex drive just had me thrusting up his ass for several minutes, and he was enjoying it, then I shot a big jet of come right up his ass. Next day he and I went to get the cows for milking. I remember pulling off with him in the bushes, and he had me kneel on the ground. I felt the hot meaty head of his cock at my ass, but it wasn't going in. I had no idea how to open for him, especially given the size of his cock. It hurt to try and I never did anything with him again. He was the dominant aggressive type which I grew to dislike and not trust. I pulled off with my brother a few times after that but never any more until I was about 50.
My one and only experience with another male was when I was very young…probably around 9 or 10. An older lad who would have been in his late teens took me into his house and made me do stuff that I’d never thought about in my innocence. BJ, hand job and finally, he tried to enter my butt. I also got to try and enter his, but my small soft weener didn’t make any impression. I’d be fibbing if I said the experience mucked me up or scarred me in any way. It happened, I remember doing it….and I’d probably go through it again nearly 50 years later….if the opportunity arose
I had a few gay experiences when I was in junior high but my first experience with all aspects was when I was 18. I was working in retail in the warehouse. My supervisor was bisexual. When I say bisexual, I mean that I don't think I've ever seen him even interested in a woman. The first 6 months to a year, he would hit on me just about every day I worked. He'd do it in the open and in front of whoever. This was back in the 90s when you would get ridiculed for being gay. So I'd blow it off publicly. I'd say things like, "Yeah right." Well, one night we were both closing and the radio announced that the only road that takes me home would be closed due to a bad semi wreck. There was another way to get home but it involved driving more than an hour out of the way and smart phones weren't a thing yet. I didn't have a map and had never been that way so that wasn't really an option. My supervisor suggested I just crash at his place. I thought about it and didn't really see another option. It was either take him up on his offer or sleep in my car till morning. So I accepted. We closed and I followed him to his apartment. He ordered pizza. We sat on the couch and ate pizza and watched tv. About halfway through the movie, he said he wanted to do something but didn't want me to punch him. I told him to go ahead and do it. He got up, got on his knees in front of me. He took my pants off and started sucking my dick. God did it feel good. He did it just long enough to get me horny af. Then he stood up and said that he was going to bed. I said that I'd just crash on the couch. He said, "You can do that or you can sleep in my bed with me." I said, "Thanks but I didn't bring anything to change into." He said that he would be naked and he would want me to be naked as well." We went to the bedroom. I got naked and got in bed. He washed up and came out of the bathroom naked. He had a marvelous cock. It was a show-er. Probably 7 inches flaccid and hung between his legs. He got in bed and we started making out. He started playing with my cock. It quickly got hard. Then he kissed his way down and started sucking me off again. This time he finished me. I wasn't old enough to have a comparison but it was a damn good blowjob. Then he asked if he could fuck me. I told him I hadn't had that done before so he'd have to take it easy on me. He had me get doggystyle but rest my upper half on a pillow. He started eating my ass out. Never knew I'd like that. Then he lubed my asshole and then his cock. He eased his cock inside. It did hurt but just until he had gotten his head inside.Once I had adjusted, he was able to slide it all the way inside. Probably took him 15 minutes of easing it inside and then waiting. He fucked me for probably 10 minutes before he was ready to cum. I could feel his cock throb as he emptied his load inside me. I never knew how much I would enjoy having a man's cock inside me. I woke up first that next morning. I was laying next to him in a spooning position. His cock was hard. I backed up into it and started to push it inside me. That woke him up. He kissed the back of my neck and said, "Ready for more?" I said, "Yep." He fucked me again before we both had to go into work.
My first attempt was with a schoolmate of a similar age, I was 10, I don't remember how, but we masturbated together and he jokingly asked if I could suck his cock. To both of our surprise, I started sucking his cock, then he sucked mine. After that we did it several times, with other boys as well.
My first time was a guy I met on Adult Friend Finder…wanted to try out my fantasy that I had been jerking off to for years. We met at his condo…10 min of small talk, then I asked him if I could rinse off in his shower after just coming from work…came out of shower with just a towel and he led me into his bedroom…I let the towel drop, he stripped and as he was Gay, he led me thru what to do…till I finally laid down on my back and told him to fuck me…he spread my legs, lubed his cock and my ass…then got on top of me and guided his cock into my lubed hole…hurt for awhile, but he took his time until I had my legs wrapped around his back and kissing while he slowly slid in and out of me……it was incredible
i had a mate who was a couple of years older than me we found a load of porn mags that had been dumped near the railway tracks. so we gathered some up and took them to our hide outs. one of our hide outs were on a factory roof. it was an effort to get up there but once we were up there it was very private. we would look at the mags whilst tenting in our pants so we would get our cocks out. my mate was tightly circumcised and im uncut so my mate liked playing with my cock, skinning my foreskin back and forth over the head and i liked his baby pink helmet. we would rub our knobs together. but we hadnt quite worked out how to masturbate yet. i discovered masturbation first, i was so excited to show my mate. i masturbated in front of him until i dry orgasmed then encouraged him to do the same. with him being older than me he shot his load. we both turned into wank addicts, we would always be on the factory roofs wanking each other off. with him being older he became a bit more dominant and started asking me to suck him off. then one day he suggested fucking me and me fucking him. all i remember was it being painful and stinging at first, i even asked him to stop but he said just a bit longer. once i got over the pain it started feeling nice then it started feeling like i was about to piss myself. i remember screaming stop and pulling away from him thinking i was about to piss but my cock started bouncing all over the place and i was obviously dry orgasming. i let him enter me again and he came in my ass. i remember walking home feeling his cum dripping down my leg. i wanked myself senseless that night because all i could feel was a warm glow up my ass like his cock was still in there. me and my mate spent the best part of 7 years sucking and wanking each other off and giving and receiving anal to each other. even whilst we had girlfriends we would still get each other off when we were alone.
A very long time ago, a friend and I were alone at my home. We were in my bedroom studying. All of a sudden the conversation veered toward masturbation. He asked me whether or not I masturbated and if so, how often. I told him that I did it at least once a day and especially right before going to sleep. He then asked me how I masturbated. I explained my method as best as I could. He asked if I would show him and we could compare techniques. I stood up, pulled down my pants and started to slowly stroke my flaccid penis with my finger tips. He immediately followed, but I could tell he was excited by watching me because his penis was already erect when he pulled it out. I was slowly becoming erect myself from my stroking when he asked if he could feel my erection. I gave him my permission and he reached over and grasped my erect penis in his hand and started to stroke it slowly and gently. He said it felt good in his hand and that it was really hard. He could tell I was enjoying it from the way my body was unconsciously reacting. He told me to close my eyes and enjoy myself. The next thing I knew he was on his knees in front of me. Without hesitation, he slipped the swollen head of my penis into his mouth. I flinched from the shock and surprise as he slid more and more of my penis into his mouth. The feeling was amazing. He massaged my penis with his lips and tickled the swollen head with his tongue as he slid his mouth up and down on my rigid shaft. The next thing I knew, my body became stiff, I put my hands on the back of his head and shoved his face into my crotch as my penis started jerk and twitch between his lips. My body became limp as I collapsed from my orgasm and a very wonderful blowjob!!!!
I grew up nudist. From about 5 a Nighbor boy was also my BFF. My mom saw us masturbating she had one rule you can do anything you wanted so long as you asked and it did not hurt anyone. We both always did even with friends that joined us. ALL of us always asked and we all had things we did not like to do and no one was ever pressured. Reading through the posts I am so sorry some felt they were not asked or were pressured. I am glad almost everyone was OK. People of all ages and sexes should be able to feel in full control safe and fully aware in order to enjoy their experience. Personally, I had nothing but the best experiences and hope all involved feel the same way.
My first experience was at an adult book store in San Antonio. Was there watching porn in a booth when a guy came in while I was jacking off. Without hesitation he took my cock in his mouth till I came. It was great cumming, however afterwards I rushed home a took a shower, as I felt "dirty". I was about 23 at the time. Little did I know at the time that it would take me down a path I've learned to embrace. I'm married and much older now. I consider myself "bi". Sexy women still turn me on. I'm not physically attracted to men, but the sight of a man's penis is such a turn on. The first time I returned the favor was a couple of years later. I was nervous as fuck, but got on my knees and sucked him off. Fast forward to today my taste have evolved. I consider myself a bottom (with only one experience) and a submissive cock sucker. One of my biggest turn-ons is being degraded and humilated.
