It was with a friend, both of us were 11. We were swimming in the lake, bobbing around in an inner tube. We had our arms behind us, hooked over the tube so we were in the center, face to face. Our bodies kept bumping and rubbing together as we splashed about, and we both had the realization that, "Dang, this feels kinda good!" Our contacts became more deliberate, more focused--chests rubbing together, hard-on brushing and pressing against hard-on, separated by a mere two layers of cotton. I dared him (and myself!) to strip off our suits and now we were two naked kids getting serious about grinding our bodies together. I soon had an urge I couldn't resist and I ducked underwater, grabbed him by his skinny boy-hips, and put my mouth over him! Wow!! The sensations that surged through me were beyond awesome! Feeling him in my mouth as my tongue swirled around his hard cock left me feeling weak in my knees. I came up for air and he ducked under and took me in his mouth. Desire and lust and need ripped through me like a maelstrom! But one can only do so much with a mouthful of cock and lake water, so we agreed we needed to get to my place and into the privacy and air-filled environment of my treehouse. We pulled on our trunks, raced to shore, jammed our feet into our shoes, and hopped on our Schwinn's and pedaled as quickly as possible to my place. This is getting lengthy, so I'll close it here, but I'll add that was where we discovered the ecstasy of sucking cock and fucking/being fucked by a guy.
What's hard to believe? Parents have a mandate to not let their children find out a single thing about sex; yet they still do and, in many situations, it's with someone in their peer group and... let the experimentation begin. Way back then, two of my friends got caught in the act blowing each other and the father who caught them was talking to "the old heads" about it and the father was asking how the boys knew what they were doing when he was doing everything he was supposed to do to keep his children from finding out about sex, let alone actually doing it. He was talking about being a failure, but I didn't get to hear any more because the old heads noticed me sitting there (and I was trying to act like I wasn't eavesdropping) and chased me away. I theorized that there's always that one guy in every young peer group who somehow finds out about sex and "passes on" what he's learning to the rest of the peer group - he's usually the one getting the other guys to play "Show Me Yours" and trying to get a guy to suck his cock or doing the sucking himself or, gasp, initiating anal sex! Some kids head for the hills if the topic of sex even comes up but others? I've thought that parents, in the quest and duty to keep their youngsters from knowing anything about sex, piques young curiosities by telling them what not to be doing and they're trying to hide the fact that they're having sex from their children which doesn't always work as well as the parents thinks. And... the internet. When you consider these things (and some other shit I haven't mentioned), it's not all that hard to believe that so many children get exposed to sex...
I’m 64 now and my first time touching a cock was when I was 12 on the Boy Scout camping in a tent with a fellow scout. I remember being in the sleeping bag and feeling my cock getting hard. So I started talking to my tent partner about girls and pussy and how it makes me get hard. So one of those things I’ll show you mine and you show me yours. So we proceeded to pull our underwear off and we touched each other’s cock and measure each other with our hands. That was about the rest of it and the next day I felt bad for doing that I thought it was wrong because I was raised catholic. So fast forward to around 58 years old and my curiosity watching porn from guy on girls to men on men that’s what really got me off. I’m married and wife doesn’t like sex so I bought me a fleshlite and a dildo to get me off. I would take a shower and put the dildo had a suction on it stick it to the shower and back up to it and slide it in than with the fleshlite go to town so fun. After a while I really wanted real flesh to feel so I went to a site and found a person to meet at where I work. I work on a park and my wife keeps tabs on me because she has caught me watching gay porn I don’t want to loose what I have with her but I have needs so I have to be safe Back to the story. This man was 35 gay and I was 60 so after work I went to his place I was nervous but excited at the same time. We sat on the couch and watched some porn and not long into watching we both pulled our pants and shirt off my heart was pounding. Sat back down and he reached over to my hard cock and started to stroking and I did the same it was wonderful my nerves went away than he got in front of me And I got that the most wonderful feeling having a man start sucking me off. I had no more catholic guilt and I proceeded to suck him off it changed my life outlook and now feel good about the pleasures of life.
I think there may be some truth to this, but I don't believe it's exclusive at all. I think heterosexual and homosexual sex (opposite sex and same sex sexual activity) is so natural that it can spontaneously occur between kids, without any external input from peers or the adult world. That certainly was my own experience. My male best friend across the street and I were both 8 years old when we started taking turns touching, and then kissing, and then licking, and then sucking each other's cocks, and then kissing and licking each others assholes, and finally rubbing our cockheads on the outside, and pushing them inside, our holes. Neither of us had even heard of sex (heterosexual or homosexual), let alone seen any pictures of gay sex. Yet we naturally and instinctively knew sexual acts to engage in together, and experiencing great pleasure in them that just reinforced our doing it more and more. Somehow we just knew that a guy's cock can go into the mouth and asshole of another guy. And we didn't even have erections for the first few years, just being able to manually push our cockhead into the other guy's hole with saliva lubrication, and hold it there for both the top and bottom's great enjoyment. And eventually our cocks did become erect, and cum came out of them, and we were full on fucking each other. It went on until we were 13 years old, sneaking around constantly to have sex in bushes and woods, in my parents' garage or either of our basements (with people in the house upstairs), and when the parents and siblings were not home, in any room of our respective houses. Unfortunately it ended in a bad breakup just before high school started, or around the beginning of high school. It's still not clear to me what happened, but I suspect we started hearing evidence of society's massive homophobia. But I'm not sure. But it was incredible while it lasted, and in some ways, was the most fun part of my life to date. Perhaps when I finally find another boyfriend, I can top it. Now at 62, I can finally openly say to myself I'm ready for another boyfriend, not just casual sex with lots of guys. Sex with other guys, both oral and anal, feels so completely natural to me, and my favourite activity in the world. It just makes SENSE, just like it did to my best friend and me so long ago.
Great story I was about 8 also and my friend was next door and we would go downstairs in the basement or in the woods and do the same things you did. It was very natural for us we loved each other even then.
Yes, indeed; this particular rabbit hole is unimaginably deep and, as you found, it can just happen on its own and it makes all the sense in the world and despite all the crap you grow up hearing about and against anything resembling homosexuality. And, hell, yeah: Any place and any time always works; taking advantage of any and every opportunity to indulge in getting your dicks hard and making them soft again always works. But, yeah, as "spontaneous" such a sexual relationship can happen, they can end without much in the way of reason or anything else that makes sense. I know I used to get a bad case of the giggles to overhear my parents talking to other parents - yes, eavesdropping my ass off - and them saying that none of their children would do such a thing (and we'd better not) and... I was up to my pretty brown eyes having sex with both my male and female friends because it was fun, exciting and it made sense.
I suppose I was talking about how many children were engaged with adults...not so much about nearly equal aged encounters.
As distasteful we find this, it happens. And despite public opinion, there aren't always victims in this and now, this whole conversation turns into one that the moderators aren't going to allow...
I believe natural instinct and curiosity is the biggest influence/ For me show and tell with the girl across the street started very very young. I don't believe there was any outside influence that prompted it, we were two little kids under the cover of a big tree and I showed her mine and she showed me hers. That lead to you touched mine I can touch yours now... all very innocent exploration. That was many years before watching my best male friend grow an enormous winky - being the one that was always waiting for the same to happen to me - I took great fascination with his. Again that was not prompted by others - we saw each other naked often and one night we happened to be horsing around and we ended up pushed together with erections. From about 11 - 15 you spent half your day with an erection, it's bound to happen. Some just earlier than others. It's all a natural part of life.
If only we - society at large - could accept that this is all a natural part of life and how we learn about sex... and when we can learn about it. Even as I was young and learning, I always wondered how some guys just seemed to know about this, which would eventually lead me to understand just how normal this can be - and some guys find out about being able to do this much later in their lives.
Yeah, parents had no clue, fortunately, and hopefully, lol. I envy you having both sexes to play with. Girls always rejected me. I can barely imagine how cool it would've been to have sex with all the girls I had crushes on, or any other girls, and other boys.
Oh, parents knew of the potential for us guys to look and touch each other and because of beliefs, they had the task of dissuading us from even touching ourselves, let alone another guy. I would determine that a lot of parents knew what their sons (and daughters) were doing and "allowed" the experimentation as long as (a) things didn't get out of control and whatever that meant and (b) they stopped experimenting before, arbitrarily, they turned 16 - then it was keep your cock out of a girl's pussy or be ready to start changing diapers... Having both sexes to explore the sexual possibilities was, at least to me, so very damned exciting and more so when those stuck-up girls didn't want to do it... but there were plenty of guys who did want to do it.
We unfortunately found out some of the risks at a very young age as well, when one of the girls in our "play group" got pregnant very young. I think a good few of us had been with her to varying degrees, but one of the more physically mature of the group was obviously cuming already. We had a pretty good idea who that was, but poor Maureen was whisked away never to be seen again... Met her probably 15 years later at an elementary school reunion... Where do you even start to explain how sorry you are it went there. Even knowing for sure it was not myself, I was one of the guilty participants of the group. It may have had some affect on us guys starting to play with each other, but given the choice we always chased the girls, but as you mention my chances of getting off increased significantly with my buddy playing back-up. Exploration
Some girls "got into trouble" and they were here today, gone tomorrow, and never seen again and, yeah, it made those of us who could cum (like me) be more careful with girls - but the cool thing about having sex with boys is you can't knock him up so you could have sex all day long or until neither of you could get it up again. As far as I know, I have never seen any of the girls who got pregnant "really early"