First anal experience with a dildo

I have done some prostate massage in the past using a metal wand (which works well BTW). I had a conversation recently and the subject came up. The woman I was talking to asked if I had ever been fucked in the ass. (we had been talking about threesomes, MFM and MMF). I never have and really never thought about it as I’m very straight - to each his own and all that. She suggested I use a dildo instead of a wand. Since I really never thought about it, it never occurred to me to try and the visual of a cock-like dildo going in my ass seemed odd. But I also thought about it for a long time and purchased a realistic dildo. Today I found some free time, so I lubed it up, took a deep breath and inserted it (slowly).

After a few minutes of getting used to it and relaxing I maneuvered myself and let it go to work on my prostate. I have to admit it felt pretty good going in and out. I knew quickly that it would take a lot more practice to find my way to a p-spot orgasm but with some masturbation I came pretty hard.

So, what is your experience in stepping up your anal game? My SO isn’t into it, so this is a solo venture. What toys and techniques do you use? Ladies, what do you think of your men as far as anal play goes? Pegging, for masturbation, do you watch?

 

Just for clarification , I presume you are using a dildo which has been specially designed for Anal and has a large lip .

This quite important as a sucking action can sometimes happen and the lip will prevent it being taken fully in and a very embarrasing trip to the local hospital .

 

Thanks for the advice. I was using a real feel dildo but it does have a set of balls and a good suction cup under those.
If I got all that in my asshole, I'd deserve a trip to the hospital. I'll definitely check these out though.

 

Anal toys generally have a lip at the base .

Its also not a good idea to use toys for both anal and "normal" sex.

The anus contains very strong bacteria that originated in the gut to break down food and is very aggressive and can cause a nasty infection if it gets elsewhere . Even washing the toys can leave traces of bacteria so its best to have a separate collection.

 

I know I am preaching to the converted here but its just in case any beginners to Anal are reading.

It is essential to douche as well to remove any waste that could spoil a session later

 

All good advice. Thanks Captain!

 

Your most welcome

I intend to do some beginners stuff like this for the new Beginners BDSM Sub Section in the future

 

Useful douching info Capt.

I have tried a range of dildos and prostate toys; I have also played a bit with medium sounding rods stimulating the prostate internally, and sometimes both internally with a sounding rid and at the same time with ab anal toy.....usually with a generic aneros toy.....it can give very pleasurable effects. I am very careful with the sounding rods always using sterile lubricant n sterilising them.

I wonder if others have experimented with dual stimulation ....

Simon

 

I was wondering if you should have a set for each for this reason. Thanks

 

Kelli never mixes and all of her anal toys have either a suction cup, ridge or man at the end of the toy to keep it from going all the way in.

 

Yeah it's not ideal when your toys goes all the way in.. not sure how it happened but needless to say I don't use a training plug in DP situation anymore

 

I had my second experience, this time with the woman I spoke with. She was nice enough to assist.
This may not be the right section of the forum for that story, but it was mind blowing.

 

I love fucking my ass with different types of toys

 

For me it is extremely addictive. The first time I did it it was so easy. I just washed out my butt with a hose attached to my faucet with warmest water I can stand. the warm water will allow your sphincter to relax and you will love that. When nice and clan and expanded I inserted one end of a double ended 18 inch dildo in about 8 inches with coconut oil. I walked out of the bathroom and laid face down and she mounted the other end in her vagina and began fucking me. I moaned forever. Then she held it and fucked the dildo her . We were both in heaven. Now I lay on my back and she does me with a strap on. She says tonight I will give you your gay fix for the week. She's bi too.

 

I used a full size female douche thing and that rinsed me out deeply. A gay friend uses a shower attachment, a 5 inch chrome douche as he's always ready to rock and roll.

 

Love using a dildo on my ass, my favourite is about 9 inches long and quite thick. I like to stand it up on a chair and then sit down on it taking it all the way in, riding it up and down nice and slow.
Make sure you douche and lube up well beforehand, if it hurts stop.

 

The first time I used a dildo was one the my ex had it was 8 inches and slim . Now that she is not around I went and got one the is 9 inches and has a rabbit at the end and the ears vibrate and tickles my balls as the head rotate inside my ass here’s a picture of it

 

I had a nice 8 inch one. iused to like standing in front of the bathrooem mirror, and also in the shower. lots of lube and bury it it

 

A lot of good stories and advice. When my wife was into anal, we never used a condom. She’d have intense orgasms, especially when I came in her. Bought 1/2 dozen dildos of varying sizes to use with her, and then a strap on she’d peg me with. Always had condoms available for pegging. Now with solo play and I know it’s coming, I’ll clean out before hand, and always use a condom. It makes cleanup afterwards so simple and easy. Remove condom, in the trash, wash toy and wait for the next time.

 

I have a small 5 inch one and a long thin 'does go in' one that vibrates and a 8 inch thick one with a suction cup but my ass hasn't felt them in many years thanks to close proximity to my sexless wife. All of these we bought especially for my ass. In years past she has put them all up me during play, and man, did that feel good. She gasped when eventually I took the big suction cup one right to the balls. She says she's not against the idea of doing me again, especially since she has vaginismus. If I can't get inside her, I hope I can coerce her into working one into me. She is using vaginismus rods on doctors orders but she would never have a dildo in her.