First adult experience over 40

It appears for many of us we experimented as kids. For those who had their first Or 2nd experience after the age of 40, curious what prompted you to experiment, how did you meet them, were you nervous , and reaction after? For me I wasn’t getting much action from the wife , met him on CL back in the day. He was married and we were both nervous as hell. Afterwards , I felt a tad of guilt but at the same time it was amazing. It was oral only. We laughed as we stripped down. He warned me as he said he was a loud moaner but actually I found that to be a huge turn in

 

I was close to 40 I was actually 38 basically same story as you! Never thought about it before. Now it seems I crave it all the time and it feel way more natural to have sex w guys. I’ve excepted it to my self

 

My first time with a guy was at age 42. I went crazy for a while and did some stupid stuff at parties. Settled down and became choosey on who I spend time and sex with.

 

In my early 40s, I answered an ad on CL when I was out of town. I had seriously wanted to try to have my first experience with a guy for a couple months prior. I soon learned that CL had more than just ads for used furniture and car parts, they had their Personals section, which seemed like a sexual smorgasbord. Although I had read tons of ads from guys in my own city, I was afraid to go through with a meeting due to the possibility I might be "found out" by someone I knew.

He advertised himself as gay, and the same age as me. At the time I thought of myself as "straight but curious." I was incredibly nervous in anticipation of our meeting, for which my expectation was that I'd just sit back and relax while he did all the work. I went to his house, we said hi, exchanged small talk, and within 30 seconds -- we're still standing in his living room with his front door still open -- he unexpectedly pulled me close to him, face-to-face, and began fondling my ass and french-kissing me. It took me by surprise, as I hadn't thought I'd be making out with him before I got there. However, in person he looked much more attractive than his picture, so I let my emotions go, and we made out for a couple minutes. Things eventually settled down, and then he closed the front door Then he did what we had talked about through CL, which was to first worship my feet, and then move upward and all around to worship all my other parts

In those first few minutes, I realized my bi tendencies were way stronger than I ever imagined. That sudden surprise within seconds of entering his door, it felt so erotic to stand there, suck his tongue in my mouth, and feel his ass as forcefully as he was starting to do to me.

Overall, it was an awesome time, and we eagerly met up again the following night for a repeat performance of the previous night's activities. The excitement of those two nights eventually encouraged me to have many more meetups with other guys in my own city

 

I was a late starter, began 5 years ago, at age 60. My wife is many years younger than I, sex was great, but then menopause hit. I looked at porn, jerked off, but slowly the porn that I looked at evolved to threesomes, then bi, then gay. It took me a lot of will power to take that final step, I met a guy thru Craigslist, same age as I, same situation. We met at the local bookstore to exchange hand jobs, as I was stroking him, I got closer and closer, then, I realized I was kissing and licking his cock. I pulled away, and looked up at him, his eyes were closed, he had a huge grin. I leaned forward, took him in my mouth and began sucking him. I really liked the idea that I could pleasure this guy, making him hard. I tasted his first drop of precum, I was hooked. I continued, caressing his ass cheeks, touching his balls lightly, I could feel his sack tighten, he pushed me off him, and he started to cum in my hand. What a huge load! I used a towel to wipe most of it off my hand, then as cleaned up, I licked my hand clean. We were together off and on for a year. Then I wasn't able to find anyone in the area. 3 weeks ago, I found a nice guy nearby, same situation as me, we met, I gave him road head, he went crazy, he loved it. I want to get back with him, but this chinese virus is keeping us at bay. In speaking with him, I'm hoping to get my cherry popped, loose my virginity, and eventually have him breed me. I love women, especially the young girls in college, but sucking cock and swallowing cum is my source of pleasure now.

 

Never had an experience with a guy but think about it a lot!Would love to suck someone off

 

I'm close to 50 and I haven't done anything with a guy yet, as most of you recall. I had a lot of internalized homophobia to overcome before I could let myself like guys. It was a long journey that started in my early 20s. Only this past summer I accepted my bisexuality. I guess if I crossed paths with a nice enough guy some years before then I might've taken the plunge. But at that point I would call it experimentation, to keep myself from applying the bisexual label. In a way it would still be experimentation now because of my inexperience, but now I'm sure I want to have sex with men, and I'm determined to make it happen dammit!

 

I'm 20 and recently discovered I absolutely love cock and cum. Never been with an older guy but would love every second of it.

 

I would too! 48 year old guy here.

 

That would be cool if you could be my first older guy but you probably don't live in greenville north carolina.

 

Unfortunately not. Sounds like you and I could be a good match too. I'm sure there are nice older guys near enough to you who would appreciate a special night with you. It's a statistical inevitability!

 

I just began to notice other guys dicks a lot, did a lot of camming and stroking with guys. Made me want to do more. Went to a bathhouse and had my first. Loved it so much i went back, often, to suck more dicks

 

Thats awesome I need to find a few guys to regularly suck off and swallow all their loads at once. Me discovering cock at 20 has changed my world.

 

I was a bit nervous also, but his hard dick was only an inch from my mouth. I had wanted to do this, been flirting with the idea for a long time and this was my opportunity. So I reached out, grabbed his dick and put my lips around it, then took it all in my mouth. It felt fantastic and for my first one i gave the guy a great blow job, I could tell as he was holding my head on his dick and really fucking my mouth. His knees went weak and he moaned and shot off right in my mouth

 

The older I've become the more gross I believe all this oral stuff is and talk about germs and infections....yikes...