Buy a new soft make up brush and get hubby to flick it gently on your clit,I tried it on my wife and she orgasmed 3 or 4 times..
I think it works well because you can stimulate your clitoris without too much pressure..but I don't have a clit so rely on what my darling wife says..but the orgasm she had was amazing ..I do love getting my fingers in her wet pussy too ..
I'm with you Melly -- when given enough time and plenty of lube, I can take another man's amorous feelings up my ass with very little discomfort, but a finger always hurts ...
Clit stimulation is it for me! I have orgasmed from penetration, but that is only while fucking my husband. He has a big dick and always pounds my pussy good and hard that I can't help but cum. Mostly though I can only cum from clit stimulation.
It's clitoral stimulation that brings me to orgasm every time. If I'm looking for penetrstion, then I reach for one of my dildos.
You girls do realize that in most cases your clitoris is being stimulated with however you're being done. If with a large partner the stretching of your vagina puts your clit in contact with his thrusts. If he's average and should move up a bit or you down, again your clit makes contact and especially when it becomes swollen and engorged. Obvious if you're self gratifying yourself with the two or three finger strum method, then there's no doubt, you're getting the full effect.