Fingering or rubbing the clit?

Definitely my clit..during sex i almost always will rub my clit unless I’m on top and grinding my clot into him. Though as I get closer to orgasm I love either a dildo or my hubbys thick penis(don’t think I would be satisfied by a skinny penis) in me. I can come from a dildo alone but that’s usually cause I’m going at it pretty vigorously and the in and out is pulling the skin over my clit.

When I masturbate it’s almost always clit with a vibrating dildo inside. I won’t thrust t till I get real close to an orgasm.

And with that...I’m heading back to bed for some alone time!! I need an orgasm or two daily. Either from sex or mastrubation!

 

Rubbing the clit feels better

 

Way better ;-)

 

I like sucking and licking it at the same time.

 

I focus more on my clitoris I do like both but I could be watching telly you know when we often get an itch... but when I do that I start rubbing for some reason

 

Rubbing, but not directly on it. I have to be wearing underwear, it gets too sensitive if I rub directly on it, but not when my husband does. Idk why that is.

 

The consensus seems to be CLIT!!! which leads me to the question, why do lesbians use strap-ons?
Yes, IRL the "use strap-on" vs "other technique" ratio is much lower than in porn, but they are used. (They are sold.)

I never understood why a woman would wear a strap-on for her own pleasure and the responses to this thread suggest that the receiver doesn't get much out of it either.

 

Just curious, how many lesbians use strap ons as opposed to just a dildo?

 

Clitoral stimulation is bomb.

If more men understood this, more straight women would be happy

 

Clit, clit, clit and more clit. Although, that’s after lots of touching everywhere else, and some fingering. Slipping the fingers back in also helps keep everything wet.

 

Yup, clit rubbing, clit vibing, grinding the clit, it’s all about the clitty!

 

Bit of slap at the right time does wonders too.

 

A combo works best in my experience.

 

I cut rub and play with a clot for hours

 

clit is what makes me cum, but i love penetration. i don't usually cum from it but its amazing in a different way

 

OMG. Biology 101. It's all about the clitoris.

 

It sometimes takes a while, before some of the younger crowd learns this, while it's all about getting something into her hole....

 

I can see that it's been a couple of years since you posted this, but Oscar Wilde said this over a hundred years ago, and it's worth repeating: "Everything is about sex, except for sex. Sex is about power."

Using a strap-on, engaging in a penetrative act that one isn't biologically equipped for, in addition to what physical pleasure it may give the recipient, is play around the power of the one wearing it.

 

A gentle rubbing of my clitoris usually brings me to orgasm soon enough.
If I've got a little more time, then I'll lube one of my dildos and have that inside me too.
It feels nice to slip a finger or two inside but it's the attention that I pay to my clit that does it for me every time.
I find it easier after spending some time on here lol!

 

This place can be arousing for sure.