Fingering at a club?

In addition to all the other fucked up stuff that was written near the end of of this thread this is pretty messed up too. The last sentence makes it a little better but doesn't make up for it imo.

 

That is why I felt bad about it on the nesxt night. I do not see myself as the type to feel up strange women. Surely, however, women like men to show them that they are attractive, but are sometimes afraid to say so, and therefore like men to take the initiative and do it for them.

 

They like men to take the initiative but this does usually not mean getting fingered by a drunk stranger in the club (i think, have not tried this myself yet).

 

Not by sexual assault

"you're pretty" usually does it for me

 

This thread is scary!

I had no idea some women/men were OK with sexual assault. I'm shocked.

We go to clubs for sex (lifestyle clubs). There's a lot of respect and the maximum going on before explicit consent is an innocent caress on your hand, or arm. One will ask before doing anything else.

I'm old fashion and consent is important to me.

 

You can either live your live keeping boundaries or you can live your life breaking them.

 

The art with that is to see and respect other peoples boundaries while doing so. Generally not a strongpoint when drunk.

 

So even when I break people's bounderies I should still respect them.

 

And accept the consequences of course.

 

Those are wise words my friend.

 

It's best to break your own boundaries (if you wish to do so) without breaking others :2thumbsup:

 

I once fingered my girlfriend's asshole at a club. It was pretty hot. It ended up being the first night we had anal sex.

 

I hope you washed your hands after.

 

I hope for those who got fingered by a stranger at a club that that guy washed their hands before Probably not the case when they're drunk..

 

Right? That's an infection waiting to happen. uke:

 

At least at the club they don't have those bowls with urine sprinkled peanuts (like at the bar)