I'm hoping there is a way to explain this in words to me, or maybe there are resources out there I can look up -- but I have a question about fingering a vagina from an odd angle. I consider a normal angle to be my arm heading down her stomach, so that my wrist/palm is facing her. From there its very easy to rub her clitoris or to put my fingers inside and do the ' come hither ' deal with her g spot. The problem arises when im in any other position. Coming from the side, I can still reach the clitoris OK, but i find it difficult to reach in and around to the g spot area. And coming from behind, all i can pretty much do is poke at the clitoris, which is clumsy and lacks control/finesse. Should I not even be trying to finger a girl unless I can get my wrist right down in front of her stomach/vagina? girls/guys: do you understand the problem here? are there any techniques or solutions here? do you have any tips or tricks that have worked for you? I feel like touching any other part of the vagina gets a little old sort of quick. Am i wrong here? its sexy enough to just put fingers in there, and gently rubbing around or playing with labia can be fun for a little while -- but I feel like all roads quickly lead to the standard arm/wrist/palm position and im hoping for some feedback into how i am wrong or how i could be right. Any direction is appreciated
So, you want to be able to finger-fuck your partner from angles other than her directly facing you, is that what you're saying? I must admit it's a little bit difficult to understand what you're trying to achieve here..... Anyway, let's assume that's what you want to do. In which case, keep in mind that there's more to pleasuring a girl than just penetrating her vagina. It pays to know what the clitoris as a whole actually looks like, and from there, one may begin stimulating the organ not by touching it directly but rather by massaging the surrounding area in more of a broad sense. Once your partner is ready for penetration, you could insert a finger or two within her to stimulate the outer third of her vagina where the sensitivity is higher than deeper within, and of course her G-spot as well. Now, what I can recommend is perhaps to watch various Tantric massage videos? I find those to be quite educational. You can find them on a lot of free porn sites like YouPorn and PornHub and XHamster. Nina Hartley, though generally known as a mainstream porn icon, has done some very educational videos as well. Another one, and perhaps the most important, is to communicate with your partner and learn how she likes to be touched, what gets her off the most effectively, and so on so forth. Making love is a result of good communication while mere sex can be one-sided. Do not avoid this topic with your partner because, really, she's the one you essentially should be having this discussion with, not us. All the best! ::The AT::
