I've never done it but I'm curious about having my wife put a finger in my ass during a BJ or vaginal sex. Any tips from guys on what feels best or tips from girls on best technique? Better during oral or vaginal?
So I love a woman's ass, tits and ass by far my favorite parts of a woman's body. I don't mind tossing a salad (if she's clean) and love butt play and anal so long as I'm giving it. My wife has played with my ass every once in a while and I've had a finger up my butt during a blow job or just with my wife experimenting. It really doesn't do much for me but then I've never had a "professional" prostate massage either, so... I think it boils down to this. Either you like your ass played with or you don't.
Can't comment on the guy part of the equation because we're lesbians, but we love to do anal, so put a post if you want some info...
Start by having her go around - but not in - your ass. This will get you and her more comfortable with it. Lube is important since there is no natural lube in that area. Obviously, make sure you are clean. I would recommend fingering yourself first so you know what to expect.
I want to know about this too from a female's perspective. I'm considering trying it but am apprehensive bout sticking a finger up there incase I hurt him? Me I love it, I think he would be much more apprehensive though.