A question for couples practicing ass play. Did you immediately find the prostate? Guys, did you immediately understand your partner is on the right way? My wife is fingering so far without success. Then I am confused, whether the prostate is too deep to reach with the fingers, or is not so sensitive that touching it would be unmistakable!
I had the hardest time finding it on my own. I used fingers and used an Aneros quite a bit. Kind of felt like I was doing it right but I never really got the results I expected. A while ago I found out that my masseuse offered them. It wasn't exactly a menu item but she and I talked about it while I was getting a massage one day. I came back for it and she was very clinical. Gloves on. Lots of lube. She found it right away and boy was it a good feeling. Now I still use the toy and it's easier than it was before but not as good as she did it. I think it has to do with the position she had me in which is harder to do when I'm at home.
