Thought so. Keeps your options open. Are you actually into the whole "free love" thing? or do you just want more sex with no ties. Imh, two different things. If you just want more sex...with your looks that can't be that hard...unless you have a god awful personality.
I am into free love and know there's a difference between that and what this is about.. just posted here because it's easier to describe in the context and figured it'd be a more supportive forum for it. It's not that it's really hard, just open to new ideas I suppose
Fair enough. Personally i'd widen my circle of associations...and see what occurs. All this internet garbage seems too seedy. You look like you have atleast a modicum of class.
Do you have a car? Might be worth posting a CL ad in a different town & then driving there. Just a thought.
i don't have this problem anymore i have a buddy but i am still looking for free loves.. a club is a cool idea
It's a pity you're not this side of the water as nowheres too far to travel. I'm in a sexless relationship right now and would relish a fuckbuddy or two or whatever. The English are so prudish sometimes.
You're a girl. Just go to any bar you like, preferably with good music. Sit alone at the bar (The Universal sign for "Available"). If you're just looking for sex, then dress accordingly. Men will approach you if you are open to them. I'm sure one of them will be willing to do you. If not, wait till last call when the standards are lower. But, you could end up with an STD. Better idea. You know that guy friend you have...the one without a girl friend? He's your friend because he's trying to get close to you. Ask him if he'd like to be your fuck buddy, and I'm sure he'll be more than willing. Just set the boundaries before you do the deed.
I don't have male friends like that Take that however you may. Also, the whole "you're a chick so it's easy" thing is a sort of narrow minded way to look at it... in my opinion. besides, I'm not really interested in putting myself on display at the meat market. unless I can hold up a sign that says "not interested, next please" I don't think it'd be an efficient method. Thanks for your input, though.
I'm female and seem to have no difficulty finding lovers. The "you're a chick so it's easy" thing isn't narrow minded. It works. Just use what you have. It doesn't have to be in a meat market. Just get out and talk to people. I'm just saying.
No more advice is needed really, I already found someone new as I posted before. Talking to people? Wow never thought of that one..