So my wife and I have been married 4 years, together for 10. When we met she was the first woman I'd ever been with and she had an insatiable sexual appetite. Now however it's more or less gone, however I feel as though I've hit my sexual prime. We're not on the same page whatsoever and she makes me feel like a pig for enquiring after sex. Any other people on this situation...what is your outlet? I need to relieve my blue balls
Depending on her age and your approach it may be she doesn't enjoy sex or it could be painful for her. She may be menopausal if she is nearing 40. There may be other reasons such as your romantic expertise. Women do not get turned on by just the thought of a cock sliding into their pussy. But saying just the right things will get them close to orgasm. Once they are there they will welcome sex. But that's what you have to figure out. A three line post in this forum isn't much to go on so it's hard to say what her issue is based on that. Now, if you want to give up on her and get some strange there's a plethora of ways to do so. As it is right now with this virus thing it's more challenging to get a sex from other women but there are outlets available. When this all passes the strip joints, massage parlors, and escort services will open up. Pay for pussy is one way to go and there are advantages to going this way. Finding a fuck buddy is another but be sure it is someone she has no possible contact with. An affair is more risky than PFP as emotions can rise from the affair causing discord at home. I would suggest you begin at home and find out why her interest has waned. Then discuss openly your needs and desires. Do not do this in the bedroom or right after being rejected. Make a time to open the discussion to let her know how much you miss the intimacy between the two of you. Let her know how much she turns you on and find out what you can do to do the same to her. You may uncover the issue and find a solution.
