Financial Dependency in a Relationship...

So... people who spend hours a day cooking, cleaning, running all the errands an sometimes raising children are free-loaders?

Work is work whether is for pay or not.

 

Being slightly off topic, but like drumminmama said - check out the visa conditions before you go.

On the Port of Entry you will be asked for the reasons of your coming and who paid the ticket. Keep in mind you come for a simple visit. Take precautions to prove that you're able to afford the trip and also to show your binding ties to your home country, and that you are willing to go back.

They don't wanna hear that you come to live in the United States ... they might send you back right away.

Good luck

 

first of all that is a totally diffrent situation....they met online they are not married they have no chidren....it doesn't take all day to cook for two, clean up after 2 and run some errands hell i do that all and work 60 hours a week.a freeloader is someone who is totally able to work but doesn't for whatever reason...if you think work is work for pay or not you tell that to the bill collectors.

 

why is it you feel i am spewing smart ass comments?because you don't agree with what i said??to you my opinions are hateful trash??some find advice helpful others may not.starting shit?do i not have a right to respond???stick to the subject honey and stop trying to win a popularity contest...and it's mlee27.

 

thank you . i guess i rub people the wrong way on this here site but hey i'm human too..but thank you

 

who cares whether your gay or straight? you never once in your original post said you were going to get a visa and a ajob and blah blah blah..be more informative in your posts...

 

For your info I was talking to the BIGGEN......

 

your info is wrong it even said at the end of your post stop starting shit miee.....

 

Re - Read I was talking about how it doesnt give people the right to do what HE was doing........and i was TALKING to YOU....but ABOUT what HE was doing

 

WHO IS THIS DIRECTED AT???

 

That was talking about what HE was doing ....and explaining it to you because you thought i was wrong ...because its Free speach
why are you so upset about this issue anyway...you act like its all personally about you ?

 

mlee27...Have you Come Online on your Period?

Have a Nice Cup of Tea and Chill Out...

I will Reply more Throughly to this When I Have Time...

 

Im sorry if i upset you so badly...all I was doing was trying to expalin why i thought what he was doing was wrong...that nasty comments and stuff likethat cant be hid behind free speech.....It wasnt ABOUT YOU

 

first of all i am not upset, i don't know you people and what you say does not affect me in any way.i find it funny however how certain folks on here ridicule and get defensive because another has stated their own opinions.it seems the hippie forum should be called the hypocrite forum.perfect example i enjoy good converstion whether it be a debate or a general everyday issues, however i have people like mudpuddle insinuating i am menstrual because i have an opinion which by the way everyone has, and if it makes you feel any better my pussy is not bleeding this week.however i will be sure to post my menstrual cycle if need be....bottom line i DO NOT PERSONALLY RESPOND TO THESE THREADS WITH ANY INTENT OTHER THAN TO SHARE MY VIEWS AND OPINIONS, never do i personally attack any one like some others that i will not mention, that being said i'm going out to by some tampons......

 

OK Darling...

Thank You for your Input in this Thread...

I Got Slightly on the Defense When you Assumed I Would Forever be a Bum...

 

i never said anything remotley close to calling you a bum...if you are going to assume take "me" out of it...

 

You Say Freeloader...my Definition of a Bum...

 

it"s your post.go with it

 

Please Stop Posting in this Thread mlee27...

Thank You...

 

Just for clarification ... this is a public forum and there is no such thing as owning a thread.

If you want others to stay out, you gotta create your own personal forum.

But this place is a place for all of you ! And it is what you make of it ... each of you ... and whatever you put out there, it is for all of us.

And as you get what you give, you may give what is best for all - including yourself, no ?

May we all come to a place of better realization that we are indeed all living on 1 planet ... how can people be against the other then ...

Peace