Finally Getting Anal For My Birthday! What Should I Expect?

I've always been a HUGE fan of my lady's gorgeous butt, and finally after many years of 'no thanks' she got the idea to try it for the first time. I happen to know she's actually doing exercises one of those anal dildo sets aimed at making the experience better for her, so I know she's preparing.

Do any of you guys remember your first time doing this? Is it as amazing as I think it's gonna be?? What are the most fun positions for it? Any tips to keep my cool so I don't blast off the second I get it in??

 

Do everything you can, including a lot of reading about anal and how to do it so everyone best enjoys, to make it very pleasurable for her. See if you can make her orgasm with clitoral stimulation during anal play or sex. If she likes it, rather than just suffering through it for you, she's more likely to be willing to do it again.

 

I remember my first anal sex with my wife like it was yesterday. It was 18 years ago!!! It was totally amazing-an incredible feeling.
My advice is;
1. Lots of lube:
2. Be very gentle at first.
3. Cum inside her if she's OK with that. There's no feeling like it.
4. ENJOY!!!!

 

1. Yep, already researched the best kind and how to apply it
2. Of course. I worship that butt so much I would never want to hurt it!
3. Yes! She's totally encouraging that, in fact direct quote "why would you want to pull your penis out of the very thing that's going to be making it so happy?!!"
4. I can only imagine how good it's gonna feel!! Can you describe what it felt like that first time?

 

tried it only once. couldn't finish for 30 minutes. as soon as i got inside her ass I've been feeling like I was just about to cum in less than 2 mins... that how it feels

 

Hi Mark.
I can remember clearly the emotional high when my girlfriend (now wife) said she wanted anal sex; I almost came just hearing her say it!
I remember how tightly her arsehole gripped my cock that first time, and every time since! And the feeling of my cockhead going inside was sensational.
Finally, I can barely describe the heavenly feeling of cumming in her arse for that first time.
These are all feelings that I will never forget!!!!!

 

What should you expect?

As the male, from your wife you should expect hesitancy, uncertainty and possibly a refusal to continue. If so ..... try again tomorrow.
Understand that being her first time, she will experience pain to a varying degree. You've pushed something hard into a place that is designed to push something soft out, ergo it may be initially uncomfortable for her.
Take your time, and that very first moment, let the sphincters sort of suck you in. It happens. Don't push against them - that DOES hurt!! They will relax with almost a "pop" and you really slide in easily.
Don't try and plumb the depths first time. - Work up to that over the next few occasions

What you will feel, (I believe) is an incredible tightness that heightens your sensations - I have been told it is very different from what men feel in the vagina. You will also experience the probability of your wife having the most intense sexual and orgasmic experience.

And do what others have suggested. Come inside her. WE CAN FEEL IT !!!. It's amazing. (although the side effects later for us aren't that great!)

Be aware that there might be a bit of a whiff and you might have a bit of a "high tide" ring. Don't let that faze either of you. The human botty is very clean. Just enjoy it together.

 

For her to pull out a strapon then it becomes this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YuYFYrFovq4

C/S,
Rev J

 

Once you've done it, do it a lot, Mark. Don't act like "wow, we did it, that was really cool." No. Be like my Master and present it as a wonderful thing and as (to some extent) the New Normal. Not in an overbearing way, just in a "Isn't this great" way.

Master's Cock has been up my ass almost every day for over a year now, and it's been fantastic. He introduced it, he reinforced it, and then It Was. Make that happen for you and your girl.

 

Great advice Paula from a woman who clearly enjoys anal sex!

 

Tomorrow's my birthday!! Wish me luck!!!

 

first time with you or in general ? because girls like to say its the first to make their man feel special. if your gf has has a few boyfriends before- u aint getting a first of nothing

 

Yes it is.
Thanks for the recognition.
No she doesn't.
Any more questions?