.....I, too, HATE it when a male asshole is referred to as a "man pussy"...it's an ASSHOLE (or, "man hole!) I have always believed that just because a man enjoys sex with OTHER males this does NOT mean he is relinquishing his masculinity in ANY way. IMHO, a MAN is a MAN, period, and it makes NO difference if his sexual partners are of the same sex or the opposite sex. I've always been straight-acting and appearing, and, being a MAN, I have no desire to act otherwise. "Flamboyant" -acting gay men have always been a HUGE turn-off for me (only MASCULINE guys need apply!) If a masculine TOP decides to BOTTOM, it makes him NO less of a man.......just ENJOY the EXPERIENCE of male-bonding at is best!
When I was still working ((I'm now retired nearly 20 years), I was in the midst of hundreds of men each day (a LOT were HOT!!), there was one guy (in his 20's) who EVERYONE thought was gay; he exhibited every flamboyant "queer" mannerisms you could think of; I had no real contact with him, and I was glad, because he really made me feel extremely uncomfortable. Guess what? He was STRAIGHT (and, as I found out later) had several girlfriends of different ethnic backgrounds! WHY was acting so "flamboyantly gay, then? A co-worker of mine later told me he came out and asked this guy WHY he acted as he did? His answer? "I LOVE the attention, and a lot of girls dig it; they like pretending I AM gay, after, after I fucked them, they made me STRAIGHT!" I couldn't even reply more than shaking my head (this character was also, to be frank, "two tokens short of a turnstile". The old saying goes: "It takes all kinds to make a world." That only saying REALLY hit home that day. Seeing that kind of behavior, it's not surprising why so any straight men are homophobes and bigots.
YES & YES. I think that's what messed with my head for a bit, after my 1st (&, to this point, ONLY experiences with guys - 2 in the same day, nothing since....but certainly not for lack of desire ;-) ). I'd NO IDEA taking that 1st D in my mouth would unleash an EXTREMELY HORNY, SUB SLUT, overwhelmed by feminine sexual WANTS & "needs". I've always been pretty adaptable with women, as far as me taking charge &/or, letting her take control, but very much masculine, regardless. But within moments of going down (& CRAZY, FUELED BY INSANELY HOT ANIMAL LUST) on another guy the 1st time, I mean....the NEED, HUNGER I felt, in BOTH ends was overwhelming, sudden, unexpected, as I'd no idea such feelings existed within me, until that moment. I'd have done ANYTHING he wanted & WISHED he'd had a buddy to join us. Had never realized what an absolute slut I'd be upon tasting the D til that day.....it, honestly, changed EVERYTHING & 4 yrs later, it's all I think about. I'm not romantically into/attracted to guys, but sexually, guys are all I think about (no sexual interest in women, other than my wife, anymore....& She'd NEVER, but I'd love to find a guy or 2 for us both to play with.... maybe someday).
Generally yes. But I am also genderflux so it the day can make a big difference on if I am masculine or feminine.
I like to be feminine with a guy and masculine with a man. It is just a way for me to relax from my world where I have to control everything and be in a totally relaxed no control world. I will do anything for the right guy and have found that when I wear panties for him it is a great feeling with good results.
