I'd definitely want to be her bottom--especially considering her big cock against my small cock--but all the while, pleading for mercy! Hopefully, you'd be there to keep a close eye on the situation.
Wow, I'm not sure why guys want to be submissive. If that works it works. I would try things , I would let a woman dominate for the experience. While I'm openly looking to try things with a man it's about the physical sensation and experience. I feel I could suck a cock or be fucked but it's for mutual pleasure not domination. Does anyone else feel that way. It's a mutual fuck not being made his girl for the night. If I want to experiment with a guy it's to try mm sex, not to play the girl or submissive role. I would be fine if the guy was feminine or somehow attractive. Smooth, hair free, or young and feminine but I would as much like to try sucking a cock and being fucked as fucking him or getting blown.
i love surrendering to a man sexually, and satisfying his needs - often i imagine i am his "wife" as I please him. I have "dressed" for men, and like how that feeds into the sense of being feminine - and nothing makes me feel more femme and submissive than wearing perfume
She looks far better than I do sporting the very same clothing. But, I do enjoy prancing around with it on as I provide whatever it is he's in need of. Once I "dress" this way (Not always, I save it for right occasions) my internal mind goes fully feminine as I pleasure him in the many ways I can and allow him full access to what I have to offer. Yes, I become a total slut and I do not mind saying that.
Was a few times a man asked me to dress in panties and lingerie. It excited me and I did feel feminine, which was fine. We all have traits of masculine and feminine qualities and guys often don't get in touch with both. I think the guys asking me to dress may have felt more comfortable being with a man if they could visualize him as fem.
I wear stocking a lot along with garter belts and it does make me prance about more in a feminine way and when I bend over "doggie style" on the bed or floor with my ass up for the taking...they plunge right in and I love the fucking as I force my ass cheeks back against him in stride with his rhythm. I do have an array of lower female garments I wear while being fucked in the ass and even my wife get's horney as hell as she hooks up her strap-on to fuck me deep and hard.
Total bottom with guys and if you consider loving foreplay cuddling kissing having my nipples sucked and bitten having my ass filled with tongue ( oh shit that is heaven ) giving (not necessarily receiving) head and being fucked and dominated..... Does that make me fem???
I've recently found it very exciting to dress up and be shaved everywhere, including my legs and armpits. The first time our guy saw me dressed up, he was excited. My wife told him to treat me like a slut. He did, and I enjoyed it a great deal more. Having him tell me what to do made me feel submissive, and it turned me on like never before. I found it exhilarating and new as I played the role of a woman. My relationship with my wife has changed as well. She plays the male role most of the time, as she is at the age where "normal" sex doesn't excite her anymore. She gets off seeing me dressed up as a woman. I think I make a pretty hot woman to be honest....I would fuck me!!
I've been feeling more and more feminine for months now. even dressing more and more like a girl too.
I feel like a woman most of the time now. I look at guys when I'm out to the store, etc. And think of getting them to fuck me. I have noticed that I'm becoming attracted to men in a way I never was. I get tingles in all the right places when I see a good looking guy in tight jeans. I'm not looking at his ass, I want his package. My regular guy mentioned this evening that he feels it. I greeted him with a passionate kiss several times now. He acted strange the first couple times I did it, as if he was put off by it. He said he felt odd because he knows I have a wife in my life. My wife supports my newer ways, and so does my man...I am the woman for my man. I am submissive in every way, and love it. I want to be a woman....I am confident in that, and am embracing those ways of life. My wife, who is bisexual, will have her woman...me. We are both excited about this. I love to submit to her too. I suck her strapon like it's the real deal, and she loves it. She also loves playing the role of the man, and says once I'm all done with the transition, she will enjoy me even more.
Never had this experience but looking forward for a man to take me in his arms and make love like I am a woman.
I'm still a bottom virgin, but hoping to change that soon, and even don't have a lot of top experience, having only fucked one guy, a young twink, so far (and loved it beyond words), almost fucked a guy my age on two occasions, and gone crazy devouring only 6-8 guys' assholes so far, and also hoping to do a lot more topping. In fact, if it weren't for the pandemic, I know I would have by now topped and bottomed with a lot of guys since breaking up with my girlfriend just before the pandemic hit, and when I was so excited to let loose and go crazy exploring the gay side of myself in a much greater way. So I can't really give a definitive answer as to whether I'd feel feminine bottoming, or whether I like my bottoms to be more feminine. But so far, my experience has been a little different than guys in this thread. So far I've liked the masculinity in myself and my lovers, whether they are submissive or dominant, with the idea of two pure men making love orally or anally like only two men can do. It's the celebration of the union of masculinity and homosexuality that turns me on. I think it's why countless gay and bi men are crazy about cock, especially erect cock, and why so many bi guys are only interested in cock and nothing else about the rest of the guy: as Carl Jung and others have written books on, the phallos, or erect penis, is the epitome of masculinity, and so worshiped, both informally and even formally, across the world and throughout the ages. And I don't like when I read or hear guys using the term "pussy" for their asshole. It's a man's ASSHOLE that I'm in love with. When I feel gay, I am totally gay, and have no interest in women, and pussy is what a woman has. When I feel straight, I am totally straight, and have no interest in men. That's how my bisexuality rocks. Mixed gender straight or bisexual threesomes or moresomes doesn't do it for me in porn, and probably wouldn't in real life, because the two genders screw with my sexuality feelings, confuses me, and leaves me with an unpleasant feeling. Perhaps this will change for me over time as I get more anal experience with men, both giving and receiving, and as I get more and more familiar with the gay side of myself, which I think still has some form of suppression going on with it, perhaps even some internalized homophobia at an unconscious level. Now, I'm not even that masculine of a guy, and definitely fall on the more sensitive side--though the idea of male sensitivity is falling more into the incorrect stereotype of non-masculinity in our society. But I wouldn't say I'm feminine. I am "straight acting" in everyday life, and in the bedroom (or bathhouse etc.), I like men who love having sex with other men, and even having emotional or romantic feelings for each other someday, without femininity mixed in there. Certainly the biggest turnoff I've ever had with a lover--that I should never have taken home with me after meeting online and taken to a restaurant--was how flamboyantly gay he was in his mannerisms. I'm not equating femininity with that, but maybe it's a factor? Anyway, I'll see what happens as time progresses.
.....I, too, HATE it when a male asshole is referred to as a "man pussy"...it's an ASSHOLE (or, "man hole!) I have always believed that just because a man enjoys sex with OTHER males this does NOT mean he is relinquishing his masculinity in ANY way. IMHO, a MAN is a MAN, period, and it makes NO difference if his sexual partners are of the same sex or the opposite sex. I've always been straight-acting and appearing, and, being a MAN, I have no desire to act otherwise. "Flamboyant" -acting gay men have always been a HUGE turn-off for me (only MASCULINE guys need apply!) If a masculine TOP decides to BOTTOM, it makes him NO less of a man.......just ENJOY the EXPERIENCE of male-bonding at is best!
When I was still working ((I'm now retired nearly 20 years), I was in the midst of hundreds of men each day (a LOT were HOT!!), there was one guy (in his 20's) who EVERYONE thought was gay; he exhibited every flamboyant "queer" mannerisms you could think of; I had no real contact with him, and I was glad, because he really made me feel extremely uncomfortable. Guess what? He was STRAIGHT (and, as I found out later) had several girlfriends of different ethnic backgrounds! WHY was acting so "flamboyantly gay, then? A co-worker of mine later told me he came out and asked this guy WHY he acted as he did? His answer? "I LOVE the attention, and a lot of girls dig it; they like pretending I AM gay, after, after I fucked them, they made me STRAIGHT!" I couldn't even reply more than shaking my head (this character was also, to be frank, "two tokens short of a turnstile". The old saying goes: "It takes all kinds to make a world." That only saying REALLY hit home that day. Seeing that kind of behavior, it's not surprising why so any straight men are homophobes and bigots.