Females and sex.

so basically you're pissed because women are more eveloved then you? (not more evolved then all men more more evolved then you)

 

spidey- who made you the sole decider of looks? It is subjective y'know. While you might see an ugly person the girl he's with might see a god. You don't necessarily love someone because they are beautiful, they are beautiful BECAUSE you love them.

it's pretty damn shallow to be with someone because of what they look like. It's way better when want to be with someone because they are themselves..you want to be with them because you adore and cherish them, not because they look good naked.

I just don't see what business it is of yours getting annoyed because some hot girls fall in love with guys you see as ugly.

 

wow man.. you should try working on something other than your looks... i'm so amazed.. i've never heard anyone come off so shallow and be serious...

as for me, i'm all about personality. as far as looks go, i look to try to get an idea of what kind of personality they might have. haha. nothing turns me on more during sex than thinking about his personality and how much awe and infatuation he puts me in.

do you by chance wear a backwards white baseball cap?

 

for some very strange reason i believe i agree with spidey here.... i mean, sometimes the goodlooking guys with personalities are just too scary..you get too nervous and flighty.... whereas the not so good looking ones are easy to be around cos you have nothing to lose... i sound like a bitch. but most the time i dont have the nerve to approach a good looking guy... at a table of guys i will talk and have eyecontact with the ones i find least attractive much more than the good looking ones because i am scared of them... hehe

 

You are just such a dumbass that it's hard to even know how to talk to you. Why do you feel it is necessary for girls to only fuck guys who are attractive? Besides, my boyfriend isn't the typical hot type, but I do love him and because I love him so much, I do find him attractive even if he isn't the stereotypical idea of good looking.

 

could it be that chicks may think you are shallow, or conceded??
I know that personally when i see a guy, it is his eyes that i am first attracted too... so many girls have a different taste in guys... you have to understand that.

just because you "look good" isnt any REAL reason for a gurl to have sex with you...
Sex is all emotion with most girls... although you may find some girls just wanting sex for the sake of having sex...


Maybe if you are as nice as you say you are, maybe some girls are intimidated by you?

i have no clue.. but i know that nice guys always get the last laugh. :H

 

I can't tell if you're joking or not. But what you're saying makes you sound like a huge shallow jerk. Sex is, for a lot of people (not all women and more than a few men) an act of not just physical pleasure, but also of love, of joy, and yeah, a bit of fun. To a lot of people looks don't matter because that's just a physical quality and has very little to do with what kind of person you really are. Like judging a book by its cover.

 

Oh, please, do me, you hot jerk!

 

it isnt looks that attract women... men are very visual, and if the girl isnt remotley attractive they'll toss her out pretty quckly.. but women tend to be more attracted to personality traits like the typical "sence of humor" or intelligence... you shouldnt not enjoy sex because your enjoying it on a different level than the girl.. it all comes down to is that your both enjoying it, and that should be all that really matters

 

It's equally mental and physical for me. It's good to have someone with a nice body, but if you're emotionally attracted to the person it can be so amazing.

 

i require a certain level of attractiveness from my partners. however, what i require might not be considered attractive by other people. my men have to be the absolute alpha male, i won't settle for less and still enjoy it. my women have to be ethereal monuments to the classic feminine ideal. i can't help this, it just is. i can find someone totally attractive on an abstract level, but if they're not in charge (for the men) they're not sexy. sexy and pretty are entirely different. spidey, for example, is good looking. however, he's not sexy or attractive to me. he NEEDS too much.

 

and i don't mean that to sound harsh, i really don't, but it's the only way i can explain.

 

and i know for a fact that financial situation (ie. stability) DOES affect how a woman perceives a man. it's not something to be ashamed of, it's a sensible evolutionary trait. men look for the hot body that looks healthy and fertile to them, whish is inevitably influenced by modern standards of living. women look for the man who can build the right nest for their standards, which is influenced by their popularity.

but me, i just love a big nose.

 

I had to read til the fifth page until I found the word shallow. I thought the word would never come up. Thanks for finally mentioning it-though this topic should be branded with the word.

 

I agree

 

Yeah, but if you had read in one of my posts, I mentioned that I am only talking about SEX with a female, NOT a RELATIONSHIP, so I had said that the "shallow" business should not apply, because of course I am being shallow in this discussion to try to get the answers I am looking for.

 

Sexiness is in the way you carry yourself spidey - it has very little to do with your actual looks. I have a friend who is 5'6", over weight and by no means what society would dub as handsome and he has had more sex with hot girls than anyone I've ever met. and these women just wanted to have sex with him, not a relationship.

 

well it certainly doesn't hurt if the guy is good looking...

but you're absolutely right... if there is an emotional connection... looks don't really matter all that much.

plus, if a guy takes the trouble romance the fuck out of me... like, brings me flowers, gives me a massage, tells me how beautiful i am repeatedly... he's definitely getting some! even if he ain't the best looking in town.

hehe.

 

well i for one was well aware that you were refering to sex and not relationships and i still think that you're the most shallow person i've ever encountered(that i know of).

...i'm sorry.. i'm not trying to be that mean, but really...

 

oh, hell, he's just honest. dont' give him too hard a time. he's just not churchin' it up for people.