I’m having one right now! I’m at uni and I’m having sex more or less every night, people might judge but I’m loving the sexual freedom
My fb is with anex today doing some work for him. It turns me on knowing he will probably fuck her later
Alice, That still didn’t make you a slut. It just made you a free spirited sexual active woman. Sure beats be Asexual and not interested in sex.
Absolutely. I think; to describe one so disparagingly says more about the person saying it than the person it's been directed at. Any disparaging term. As my Gran used to say; if you can't say something good say nothing.
For me "slut' is a genderless word and I do not see it as an insult, I see it as a badge of honour that applies equally to men and women and trans people as well. I was a slut for 20years between the ages 30 and 50. I stopped when I met my current wife and have been monogamous ever since. I look back on my slutty days with happy thoughts and memories. Lots of magical moments.
We started swinging in our late 30's and for a few years my wife in her early through mid 40's was a slut, I sure love silky seconds.
When my ex wife and I broke up, she went through an extended slut phase. She would fuck on the first date, or even without a date, so she had a lot of one night stands. Then she started dating a guy she had known when we were married. After they started going together, sex with other guys stopped. She broke a lot of hearts! He thinks she has had sex with 3 or 4 guys, when she actually has had many more partners than he has and is quite the accomplished lover. He has no idea of her experience level, he just knows she is good in bed. As they say, ignorance is bliss.
My wife was the same way. I think it was funny she only had 1 that left a lasting impression, and couple that were just ok.
I honestly think there is nothing wrong with a female loving sex and having tons of partners. My wife was a major lover of cocksucking in college which is how we met. My fwb has had countless partners and in fact told me about someone who was fucking her that i never knew about and I have detailed a lot of this on different posts. My fb also so I would rather say they love sex just as much as I do or many males lol.
While traditionally the word "slut" has always had derogatory connotations, i see it primarily as an insult by women against other women who they see as threat or not living to some sort of societal standard. However, I've always seen it as a compliment, a reason for admiration. Any woman who has the confidence to pursue her sexual needs with confidence is a triple winner in my book.
I had a girlfriend who said it was two state lines. I like that one better. Gives the girl more flexibility. As a lifeguard in Daytona Beach, I met a lot of Georgia girls who subscribed to the one state line theory. After they crossed into Florida, all guys were fair game, and it didn't count against them.
A State line for us was drinking age was 18. Our state was 21. Inhabitations lower after a few drinks.