Female Partners Figure

Which view shows your female partner's figure the best from - either dressed or not
From rear , side , front or all ?
My wife has a slim body, nice shaped hour glass figure from both rear & front views but her butt is nearly flat & barely noticeable from a side view.She has a reasonably flat stomach & A cup sized breasts that look perfect from front or side views. It all depends what clothes & the style of them. & how they show off her shape.
Baggy clothes don't do anything for her figure except hide it.
She's a size 10 (NZ sizing)

 

Dunno, I'm usually blindfolded.

 

How weird if I would find my husband on some forum posting stuff like that about me...which would never happen but yea, that's all I can think sometimes when I read your posts, nz.

 

Maybe I should've blind folded my wife during sex sometimes - she wouldn't know where my hands were going to touch her from one time to next.
Mind you, she usually keeps the sheets up just above her breasts anyway as she feels cold even or warmer days & doesn't see my hands going from one part of her breasts & further down from there. . She gets asthma sometimes & prefers to keep her chest warm during sex to prevent her from starting to cough.

 

She has told me she hates certain areas of her body as she is skinny & she knows she conscience about it & how she appears if nude. She doesn't like the size of her small breasts or her flat butt. She's very slim.

 

Hm, maybe if you'd change your focus with her... like, if you focus too much on those things and trying to convince her otherwise... eh, I don't know how to bother explaining.
Many people are insecure. Shrugs.

 

I've told her I like her breasts & the size they are. But I haven't mentioned anything to her about her near lack of a butt. She lost a lot of weight several years ago & never seems to gain any. A bit like saying - I've lost weight - no someone else has found it for you now. She does have a lot of good qualities thou that are not just sexual features.

 

Let us see a pic of her and we will tell


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From a side view , her butt is very flat & her breasts protrude out more than her butt.
She's more like the build of the skinny models that appear in magazines. She has a flattish stomach & skinny legs. Some of her bones are barely covered in fat tissue. She has an hour glass figure. You can put photos up of what that description gives of her body of other woman with similar bodies.

 

How lame. You've been married over 10 years now, right? Shouldn't you be over this already? I don't get it. You make me distrust the idea of marriage.

 

we should pay nz male in pubic hair to create better topics in the love and sex forum..

 

We have been married for just over 30 years. She was slightly bigger years ago but lost a lot of weight thru health problems , stress & family deaths & never puts on weight but eats enough to stay reasonably fit. Her size was about a 12 years ago but now she's a 10. When we use to have sex, her boney areas use to hurt certain parts of me depending on position we were in. Our sex & love life is not as good as it was - we are more like friends than lovers now. Sex has not always been important to her as it has been for me. Sometimes it seemed more like a chore for her than for pleasure. Sometimes during the day time if our other family members aren't home - which is rare, I use to try & initiate sex instead of just at nights occasionally but even that was usually not to her likings as she'd preferred to do housework instead. the odd time she would give in to me but not very often. Marriage is not always as great as some say it is. She has old fashioned values & dislikes me trying to bring new sex acts into our lives & I get peeved off knowing others are better off sexually than me in what they get to do that's kept me deprived of. What's so wrong with me giving her oral sex - its not disgusting - just her attitude towards certain sex acts that she should see as improving it with variety & not the same ol same ol thing all the time - just having to have intercourse & nothing else to stimulate her body in other ways. They say variety is the spice of life - yeah - right, not in hers thou. She even disliked sex toys being bought into our sex life. So now I buy certain types (or use some we did use) to use on myself instead. We now have a lot less physical contact recently than ever before & she doesn't even kiss me when I go away to work or when we say goodnight in bed. How bad is that ! No wonder I look at more young woman now than I use to & wonder what they are like sexually in bed etc. Lately, it's as thou we are only just close friends & not lovers / or a married couple. I know sometime this month, we are going to have some time alone for a change in the daytime at home & I hope to seduce her - but how do I go about doing that again (?) without her saying ' are you back again' - as she sometimes says jokingly when I initiate. Should I just take my clothes of in front of her & see what she does or says & hope she wants to have sex, or do I ask her if she wants to get intimate & then strip off my clothes or me take hers off ? What would you suggest ???

 

What sort of topics would you like me to start in love & sex ?
I have enough pubic hair thanks - well what I have removed in amount of it anyway & prefer it like it is now - very short .

 

Or what can I do to get my wife interested in having sex with me again ????????

 

Ooops, I see the problem here,,, you don't like her tiny butt,,, what's with that? Ever played with it? Bet she likes that. We tiny butt chics like a little fun back there too even if it's small. Just don't poke a plug in it if she don't like, many don't.

 

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Do you wear gloves to keep each hand a secret from the other sexual activity?

Fuckin hilarious, just spilt my water all over my iPad.:2thumbsup:

 

For starters stop being obsessed with little girls and whinning about what you don't have. Appreciate her for what and who she is and not what she isn't. Stop hoping someone else is going to fall for your awkward sexual advances and unwanted touching. Stop spending all your extra time on the computer talking about things you have never experienced and spend that time showing her that you enjoy her company even when you are not trying to rub yourself all over her.

So another words stop being you.

 

Her butt is barely just a very short & shallow crack that is as level as her lower back & top of her legs. If she lies on her stomach, her butt is as flat as a pancake. Yes have played with her butt - what there barely is of it. She dislikes me touching her anal area. I wouldn't call it a tiny butt - its not the size of it but the lack of it.

 

nz_male, it could be the lack of interest your wife shows about sex is due to her hormone levels.

It could also be that over the years she got the feeling the things she was willing to do in bed weren't good enough for you. It's like feeling rejected. If she felt like she was never really pleasing you, that you were never satisfied and were always wishing for something else, she might have given up.

I think lots of people miss something in their sexual life. You're not alone, that's for sure. Doing the same things again and again may be boring.

The problem is that you two are sexually incompatible. She won't adhere to the kinks you have.

As people age, they need more to get in the mood. Your "more" is different from hers.

Interestingly, it is a consensus men are visual, but it's a taboo to acknowledge a man who finds it more difficult to get it up will seek the visual stimulation of younger bodies (adult women, but younger than himself and his partner). When I say "more difficult to get it up" I don't mean extremes, but simply the fact a man in his 60s isn't as easily stimulated as a man in his 20 and 30s. I must have missed the porn material showing gravity/oxydation challenged women in their 70s politically correct mature men use for stimulation.

Back to your situation, nz, the catch is the incompatibility. You're digging, looking for stimulation. My guess is that she seldom thinks of sex at all.

I don't think there's a solution to this problem.

One thing you should be aware of: even if you tell a woman a million times you find her attractive, we can read your mind and know what you really think of us. Kind of.

Your fantasies, your toys and your hands are your best friends.