Of all of my female friends, only TWO have ever had an orgasm, and I'm not one of them. And I'm not talking about an orgasm brought on by clitoral stimulation, I mean a REAL orgasm. Why is it so hard for females to acheive orgasm? What does it take? What is preventing it? Sometimes I feel like I'm stopping it myself, unintentionally, of course. And what's with that feeling that we get like we're going to pee? I know I'm not alone in that... doesn't it freak you out, girls? So, honestly... are we going to pee if we keep going with that feeling? ANY input would be greatly appreciated! Sexually frustrated, M.