Female Orgasms- what does it take?!

Of all of my female friends, only TWO have ever had an orgasm, and I'm not one of them. And I'm not talking about an orgasm brought on by clitoral stimulation, I mean a REAL orgasm.
Why is it so hard for females to acheive orgasm? What does it take? What is preventing it? Sometimes I feel like I'm stopping it myself, unintentionally, of course. And what's with that feeling that we get like we're going to pee? I know I'm not alone in that... doesn't it freak you out, girls? So, honestly... are we going to pee if we keep going with that feeling?
ANY input would be greatly appreciated!
Sexually frustrated,
M.

 

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/094210417X/102-5586933-0319321?v=glance&n=283155

The woman is kinda flakey, but the techniques are kinda basic, & right on the money.
The feeling you get like you are going to pee goes away when you finally let loose and give in and have a good wet uterine orgasm, & find you still need to take a piss afterward....
Which BTW is healthy because it can flush bacteria out of the urethra.

 

since when do clitoral orgasms not qualify as "real" orgasms?

 

This thread is making me horny.

 

http://www.welcomed.com/ - Brilliant material.

 

I don't understand why it's seen as so difficult... I don't have a problem getting my girlfriend there. Maybe some are easier than others.

 

lol

 

takes alot more then a stick of a dick... thas fo sho.

 

makes sense.

 

.....it takes....ME. that's all. I'm an expert at inducing full on female orgs.