Ladies, So i have been with the same hot woman for 20’years and the sex is pretty dang good. But she seems to have become more rigid lately. We don't have any problems. We are together when we aren’t working. She tells me she’s happy and wants to be with me. I will add that she is in the pre menopause stage and libido is down. But when she gets warmed up she is the same woman ive always loved sex with …..except…..she used to enjoy anal and anal play and admitted she had better orgasms when dp’d with a plug and me. When she would get out of the shower she enjoyed being rimmed. I would ask “do you like that?” And she would nod yes. Now for the past 6 months or more everything anal is off limits. Now here’s the bad with the good, when i first asked what was wrong she said hemorrhoids and she thought maybe it aggravated them. But thats been months and she shuts down any talk of trying it again. She also has become a prude about me taking pictures and filming her. I have numerous of both and she even said she liked being watched back then. I tried to get some pics of her in her new stilettos and she got ill about it. Whats going on? She is approaching 50. Does she view herself differently at this age? Is it the pre menopausal stuff. Should i be concerned? Im already over thinking it. I wonder why she enjoyed it then but not now. She says “my body is changing”. Well i for one think she is more attractive now than ever. But i have to admit it worries me a little that those things we enjoyed have been made off limits. We still have sex with the same frequency and it’s enjoyable. But i miss anal sex with her sometimes. Should i be worried ?
