I’ve been with a few guys but have a gf... don’t care about labels or what I am but what is bothering me is every time I’m with a guy as soon as I’ve cum I feel wrong and want to get out immediately. The guys are really nice people and I don’t want to feel like that as I feel like a dick, id love to be able to be intimate afterwards. Has anyone else experienced this - what the hell is wrong with me it’s so annoying!! Any ideas welcome... sure they’ll be the usual crap but be good to get some sensible feel back as don’t want to force being polite afterwards!! This literally happens every time and I don’t want it to, it’s now stopped me meeting guys as don’t want to come across like a twat afterwards as it’s not fair on them!
It's called post orgasm depression, might be different name for male syndrome. I get this too. It's got to do with the chemical imbalance of pleasure chemicals dicipating after an orgasm or something similar. Quite common for males, I get this at times as a female.
Thank you for your reply. Wow had never heard of that. Going to check that out. Don’t get it with females though... strange and frustrating!
Oh, well I'm not sure the depression comes from having sex with the different genders or anything, that may be something else altogether but I think you'll find it probably stems from the post orgasm depression to begin with. I was sort of having the same problems with certain people too and once I read up about it, it make sense to me. You could be so excited and a rush of endorphins and then that imbalance of chemicals just fucks with your psyche.
Yeah just googled it, think mines possibly a little more complicated but defo goes some way to explaining a few things - thanks again very helpful!
Dont you think its strange, you dont know why you feel that way? Its you, your body, you should know exactly why. I know why (Its a laugh) and the funny thing is deep down inside you know too
I thought all guys wanted to get the hell out of dodge the second sex is over--gay and otherwise. I'm all about post-coitus cuddling and relaxing--for awhile. Then it's time to cook together. And by cook together, I mean I cook and she drinks a bottle of wine.
Not at all - that’s the point - I want to do as you describe but everytime feel I need to get away and like I say don’t want to as really like the guy!
I used to regret feeling guilty, Until I realized it was silly, And what I required, Was a little more honesty.
