So I got a step-sister when I was about sixteen years old. I am now 22 years old, and she is 18. I've never lived with her, she lived with my mom and my step-dad, I live with my biological dad. I go over there all the time. The thing is, I think I've started getting feelings for her. I find myself thinking about her all the time and I just want to spend time with her. I have just found out she has been having some issues... She left her journal out and I admit to reading a page of it to get some insight, and what I read kind of shocked me. She seems to have some real emotional problems. The kind where she feels like nobody cares about her, she talks about "wanting out," feeling worthless, etc. It shocked me because she generally seems like such a happy person. I would never have seen that in her if I didn't read that page. I just feel like pulling her close and telling her that I care; that I'm here for her to talk to, but that would DEFINITELY expose the way I feel. I KNOW she doesn't feel that way about me and I'm not sure she ever could. It definitely hurts knowing this, but I also understand it would more than likely be wrong any other way. Am I sick for thinking like this? She's been my step-sister for six years. I don't know how to feel or what to do. She has since moved out of my mom's and step-dad's and I don't know how I can even see her anymore. I could probably call her and ask her to hang out, but I don't know what we would do. I don't even know if it would be a good idea for me to be around her while feeling this. Any advice?
Boundaries. Get some. You read her journal and you are horning on someone raised with you. Troll fail.
No, this is not a troll at all. It's an honest issue. I can't say I was really raised with her, but perhaps I was in a small way. I also can't say I've had any sexual desires. I've thought of it, yeah; but I've never wanted to. I messaged her yesterday telling her that she could talk to me if she ever needed to vent. She said the usual "Thanks. That means a lot. " message and I let her go. She then messaged me later at about 1AM last night and we talked about her and what's been on her mind. Then we talked for about four hours; until she fell asleep. I was really happy to let her get all of that off her head.
I'm actually pretty sure I did in my last post, if you would read. Man, you are NOT a very friendly group of people, are you? I mean, I understand my situation is quite out of the ordinary, but even people on Yahoo Answers are friendlier than this. Exactly what did I say to earn the hostility; from a MODERATOR, no less? It's not like I'm saying stupid crap like 'I wanna tap dat,' or 'how i get her in da bed.' This isn't like that at all. In fact, I'm pretty sure I didn't even ask for advice on getting together with her either. I just asked if it was wrong of me to feel the way I do and what I should do about it; and don't bother, you've already made it clear that it's wrong. You clearly don't have any understanding of where I'm coming from, so I'll just take my leave. I have to say, though; reading through the other forums on this site, you all seemed to be a nice group of people and I would like to have been a part of the community...
Well a lot of people on here take exception to new members first post being about how I fucked my sister, aunt, cousin or what ever it may be. Most who do so are just trolls and never come back. So if you had been reading the sex forums then you would have seen that and known not to post such a thing on your first post. It also didn't help that you read her journal, those are very private matters. Now had you waited until you had gotten to known some of the people on here and they had gotten to know you, I think you would have gotten a better response. You can leave if you want to or you can stay and try to prove them wrong.
chances are: if the Brady Bunch was created in our modern times. One of the brothers would be dating one of the sisters. Frankly I dont see what the big deal is. His daddy had hots for the mommy, why shouldnt the son have hots for the step sister..
I knew a girl who married her step brother. It worked out great until the divorce and then it was very hard for either of them to attend a family gathering.
@OP, nothing can go wrong by asking her to go hangout and chill. I'd avoid spilling your feelings to her though or letting on you read her diary/ journal.
