Feeling safe & comfortable to be with new people

That's awesome!

In fact, I don't think there's anything more manly than having oral or anal sex with another man. I certainly have never felt more a real man than when I finally started having sex with guys. I separate the idea of manliness from masculinity, for I believe you can be even more on the feminine side as a man, but still very manly because you get naked with other men, whether they're effeminate twinks or burley masculine men. Wouldn't you say that the more cocks present the more manliness there is in the room? If two guys identify as men and have cocks, what can be more manly than sharing those cocks (and other body parts) together? Most women arguably don't even like cocks that much. Cocks are mostly meant to be in the mouths, hands and/or assholes of other men! You're not a real man until you realize that.