Feeling empty

Been feelings like this for a while can't be bothered doing anything and just in constant crying moods

 

Don’t feel sorry for your self- change it man!

You have to act your way intongood thinking, not the other way around.

I learned many years ago, when I felt like crap or was depressed, I was supposed to reach out to someone else and help them. It always worked. Try that, realize that you are responsible for your own happiness.

 

You're the best around. Nothing's ever gonna get you down.

 

bars

 

Maybe that doesnt work for everyone

And he's not depressed the same way you think you were, and you are full of bovine manure

 

Your right maybe it doesn’t-
But someone who is full of “bovine manure” as you so elegantly posted, would be someone who shares advice without experience. That is my experience , so that’s what I shared. If it works for them great, if it doesn’t then they move on. The answer is always no unless the question is asked.

I find it both interesting and slightly humorous that my experience caused you to become defensive and respond defensively for them.

Facts aren’t feelings.


Have a great day!

 

You will prevail! I remember being 27 and in a piss mood all of the time. I had a drinking problem as well, and that was probably at the heart of the matter. But I also felt like I was getting too little attention from girls, isn't that something I heard you mention? As you get a little bit older you begin to care a little bit less about that, in my experience anyway. Good luck mate! I hope the day brings a better mood for you.

For the record, I've found that good exercise puts me in a better mood. *

 

Turn off the glowing seashell and go outside..

 

I recently joined a Futsal club

 

lol.. I had to look that one up. Good for you, @MusicTaste! That's probably a step in the right direction! You'll see!

fut·sal
/ˈfo͝otsäl/
noun

1. a modified form of soccer played with five players per side on a smaller, typically indoor, field.

 

Yup strict rules etc really physical

 

I'm sorry you feel this way. I feel for you, I do. It sucks and I know from my own experiences that it's a hard place to be.

Maybe doing things you love with persistence will help? I know when I was like this that I couldn't get motivated to do things I love, but if I forced myself, over time, I grew to enjoy them again.

I'd also recommend therapy. It helps some, and it's worth a shot.

Do whatever you feel comfortable doing. Be you.

Hope you feel more cheerful soon friend.

 

No.

From his other posts, get the distinct feeling Music taste is the real deal when it comes to depression.

Thats not the same thing as being a binge alcoholic or not getting enough vagina when you were younger even though both situations might have been "depressing" for you.

You basically just told him, he will prevail, its just youth related.

What if it doesnt? What if his youth is not the cause

 

Well thank you fir that second paragraph in oarticular

There must be something wrong with me or "them" then.

Couldnt possibly be saying to a guy that just told you he gets in crying moods for no reason, he is responsible for his own happiness ....was totally asinine

 

ok.

@MusicTaste , VG may be right. But I don't think it's beyond hope for you. You got this, man! And I think that the Futsal Club will help a little bit. But if what he's saying is true... You many want to look into getting professional help.

 

Get some Snickers, man!

 

Fuck, beat me to it by about 10 minutes...

 

I’m not particularly interested in a back and forth on a forum with someone I don’t know- I’m sorry you feel my remark was asinine- I respectfully disagree and maintain my stance. If it bothers you that bad then we are going to have to agree to disagree- you won’t change my mind, and I am even making an attempt to change yours.

This is an open forum and I am allowed to post my opinion, as you are!
If i disagree with you, I just scroll past your post and move on- simple as that.

If the The topic poster has an issue with what I said and reaches out, then by all means I would respect his wishes.
But otherwise, it’s just words on a screen my friend

 

Not making an attempt to change yours-

Damn auto correct

 

Wow VG is showing some empathy and understanding in regards to clinical depression, i'm impressed. And agree with him

But I still think the other advice is valid. Reaching out and helping others or whatever else was suggested here wont magically cure depression but it can be one component in getting better. One of many components