This problem has plagued me my entire life and I'm about ready to give up on men all together. For some reason I rarely find a guy who I am compatible with and have romantic feelings for. Every time I do come across one they come on strong and then anywhere from a week to three months later the flake on me. Each and every one uses the old "but trust me it's not you" statement and insists we should still be friends or just ignores me after that. I don't think I'm a horrible person,I have loads of friends because I get on with everyone quite easily but no one seems to want anything more from me.None of my mates can understand my problem because they either have loads of relationships or choose to push men out of their lives for fear of intimacy. I know I'm only 22 but I don't think I'm meant to be with anyone. Does anyone else out there feel like this? It's killing me and has completely devoured my self-esteem,what can I do to get over the feeling of needing a relationship and just live autonomously?