So, both my girlfriend and I are bicurious. She says she would like to try kissing other girls, I know I would love to try sucking other guys. We talk about it every now and then, and it usually gets us both pretty horny. But we haven't tried anything for real yet, mostly out of fear that allowing other people into our sex life could somehow ruin our intimacy and our relationship. I would like to know if any of you guys have struggled with this kind of dilemma, and how you dealt with it.
Sometimes fantasies should remain fantasies. Fantasies are great and as you have found out can be a real turn on, but realizing your fantasies can be damaging. If you ever do suck another guys cock, you will love it.
There is always the possibility of your relationship being effected negatively rather than positively. Having spoken about the subject with her and you both got aroused is a good start. Maybe start with a FFM three-some with a woman wanting to pleasure you with your wife and occasionally they kiss while both are giving you oral, and some breast play between the two of them. I'm only suggesting as my wife is not bisexual like me. It was easier for us to introduce another man because she was turned on when I told her I've sucked other men off prior to meeting her. We have a male friend whom visits once or twice a month. We both enjoy having a cock available for me as well as for both of us. She gets two. Sometimes just he and I satisfy each others cravings but many times she's involved with us so he and I get two mouths working our cocks and then we both do her from each end to completely satisfy her.
