Recently one of Cay’s friends, who knew that we were into the “lifestyle”, asked her if she would help her for fill one of her husband’s fantasies. She wanted to give her husband a two girl blow job as his birthday present. When Cay said yes, her friend burst into tears and told her she had been working up the courage to ask her for week. We was scared that Cay would have rejected her. Long story short, we all went out for diner and he got his birthday in the back seat of my car while I was driving us all home. We ended the night with same room and some light girl play (we didn’t full swap, hopefully we’ll do it next time) in their living room. My question is, does fear of rejection stop you from communicating your sexual fatigues with your partner? Would you being willing to help a friend if you were asked? I can only imagine how many opportunities we have missed out on because others were too shy to ask.
Fear of rejection is very real, it took me years to spill the beans to my girl but now she knows everything. Next step, convince her to make some of them reality.
