Happy Father's Day to all you dudes who are dads. Share with the readers - where are you at in life with your kids? I am 64. I have three adult children who are in their early 30s and late 20s now. They know I am gay and are loving, accepting and kind toward me. I came out to them a few years ago - it has not been a smooth experience but I think we are in pretty good shape now. I also have two grandchildren, with a third due this summer. I am semi-married to my wife of 34 years. Our marriage dissolved a year ago after many years of pretending everything was OK. I am not sure, yet, though if we will make it officially divorced or just go along as we are. Together but separate. I spent many years as a closeted, gay Christian, pushing my sexual attractions for men deep into the closet - and pretending I was OK. For the last 10 years, I have been working through the past, and dealing with the present - Life is short. I have made a few mistakes. Trying to minimize the negatives and maximize the positives. How about you? Fathers Day is a good day to reflect I think. I'd be interested to read your responses
Its a big step and the hardest part of being bi. I heard someone said this ones "if your closet is comfortable dont come out"
Yep... you have to have a good reason to come out. It has to be well thought out and you have to be prepared for the worst possible responses and be OK with that -
my kids, currently 24 & 22 have known I'm bisexual since the last 7 years. It's normal that it's accepted in this day & age. I meet heaps of young guys in their teens and 20s who are either gay or bi and perfectly comfortable with their sexuality. vive la choice! Simon
