How common is it that guys fantasize about their girlfriend being a prostitute/escort/sugar baby? Thoughts on this? My girlfriend did it briefly before we started dating, and thinking about some of the details she admitted to me is often a (guilty?) source of some hardcore fantasizing for me. What about actually suggesting they do it? Thoughts/experience? I suppose the next level of “kink” would be actually setting up something to watch (I realize there’s other threads about exhibitionism here; don’t have any experience there myself.)
This fantasy is pretty common and enjoyed by both sexes. We've played this way before. I've met my spouse at a hotel, left an envelope on the table, had sex with her, and then left as if she was an escort. But in this game she knew she was safe with me. A lot of women would not enter the world of sex for sale with many random men. It's different for even a meet up in a bar or club for a one night stand because of being more vulnerable. I think suggesting to your SO that she actually sell herself will be met with resistance but you never know. There are women who do and enjoy it. But those women are few and far between. BTW, if you ever talked her into it so you could hide and watch you would be a voyeur, not an exhibitionist. Food for thought.