I know this is extremely common but just thought we could discuss our fantasies while we are having sex with someone. Many times I think of a past partner, my wife, fwb, fb or someone I would love to have sex with. Recently I have been fantasizing about a neighbor. She is my age of 62 and is an image of a food celebrity who I also fantasize about. The resemblance is amazing. We chat regularly and one day washing my car I had no shirt on as she strolled by. Now I notice that she dresses more appealing and sexy with shorts and spaghetti straps. Her long black hair has me hard now.
Truthfully, I don't recall ever fantasizing during sex. I spend my time thinking about and making sure that my woman is satisfied. The more excited I get a woman and the more pleasure that I give her, the more excited I get and more pleasure I get. I don't need to fantasize about sex that I'm not having or someone that I'm not having sex with. I live in the moment and try and make it the best for both of us. Now if I'm getting a blowjob from a guy, I'm just thinking about how good it feels having someone suck my cock. When I masturbate, that's when I fantasize a lot!!!
I fantasized about my ex’s sister once while having reluctant sex with my ex, I didn’t seek the fantasizing but it just came and I let it happen. I wrote about a small breasted woman a couple of times. Well there were a couple of occasions I was enjoying someone with enough chest to do lots of things with and yet I found myself thinking I could enjoy the small ones on that other woman. Not obsessed or infatuated with her, no fixation on small breasts. But I have a thing for hers. Even if I had better when it came to using breasts to give pleasure to a woman.
I have to correct my post in that while pleasing my partner or partners it is all about satisfying them. That said when I am getting blown or fucking for my purposes to cum then I may from time to time fantasize
I've never fantasised about a person other than who I am playing with. She gets all my attention. Even when, eventually and on demand, I am fucking for my enjoyment, I am still engrossed in her and awash with feelings from seeing her enjoying pleasure.
Part of the deal in our open relationship, we had to tell each other who we were with. Many times, we shared these stories as pillow talk. I could tell what she enjoyed by the way she told her stories, and the tone of her voice. The time she told me about the guy with a big cock, her laying on her back, him on his side beside her, and how she felt his cock lay across her leg nearest to him and how she felt it on her other leg. I asked how big it was, she only said he wasn't that much bigger than me. I found out in a mfm threesome.
For me it depends on what sexual act we're doing at the time. If I've gone down on her, I fantasize about her sucking my cock...which I know she'll be doing shortly after I tongue her to an orgasm. If she's sucking my cock, I fantasize about getting into her asshole. Sometimes I fantasize about having her and her friend suck me off together which we always talk about but it's never happened. One of my friends will take a fucking while she thinks about being with a woman. Most of my fantasies revolve around things I've done with them or really want to do. When I spank D, I fantasize about fucking her while she's laying across the table with her red cheeks up and her legs spread just enough to see her pussy before I take her. It's all good.
Yes, I sometimes fantasize about other men fucking my wife. She has enjoyed a number of sexual partners, and sometimes I let her tell me which one to imagine as I fuck her.
I sometimes fantasize about a man drilling me doggy style and his friend walking up in front of me and sliding his cock in my mouth and they both cum at the same time )
Wife has mentioned that desire a few times. Sadly, despite a few attempts, we’ve never managed to get anywhere close to synchronizing the ejaculations. Oh well, we’ll just have to keep trying whenever the opportunity arises.
Never got timing right either, but wife never minded having another big hard cock to climb on or the guys switching places.
I usually don’t fantasize when I’m having sex, as I am focused on the person I am with. Only thing I do is think of other things when I’m nearing orgasm so I don’t cum too soon and make it last longer.
I’m not fantasizing about other people during sex - however my fantasies are about different settings like being nude on a beach or fucking my wife in the middle of a huge orgy with others watching us.
I don’t have any fantasies during sex since I am concentrating on my partner, however if I am masturbating I have plenty lol