family nudity

You were the best thing those boys had growing up.

 

Lucky fuckers

 

Can't blame him.

 

Yes, my wife, daugther (10 years old) and don't hide away when naked.
I only avoid being seen by my daughter with an erection / being aroused / having sec with my wife.
But I suspect, that once puberty of my daughter will start, we parents will hide away more.

 

My step daughter is the same age (10). My son is a couple of years older and has already started puberty. Both still seem happy to be nude around the home. I guess that could change as they get older but I don't think it will.

 

I was brought up in a naturist family and quickly learnt to be completely fine with it as a way of life. Probably helped my parents never made a big deal out out of it, it was just a lifestyle. I regularly saw some other family (aunt, uncle, cousins) nude too and my parents had many naturist friends, some with families too, so it all just seemed normal seeing adults as well as others my age all naked. We frequently socialised naked, went to the local nudist beach, and went on naturist holidays, so everyone was comfortable with it, it just felt normal for us.

 

My kids are at the ages where they are fine being buck naked all day, but then suddenly they don't want to be seen for a day or two, then they are running around naked again for a few days, then they won't be seen naked for a day or two. I thought "the teenage years" were supposed to be confusing for them, but I am way more confused than they are.

 

That's how it was in our house back when I was married to my first ex. She'd work night shift and I'd be Mr. mom, and took her 2 daughters everywhere and we became quite close, and also adopted the clothes optional policy around the house when mom was at work.

 

Reading some of these posts , you get the feeling that some people can not separate just plain nudity and sex. Everything is sexual with them. A nudist life style is not sexual. It is just the desire to be comfortable and not wear clothes all of the time. There was never a sexual overtone to it. And its kind of disturbs me to see comments on a thread like this that are sexual in nature. . There are other threads for that type of comments

 

Most only have one thing on their mind.

 

I understand the conflicting concepts but human nature has difficulty keeping nudity and sexuality separate.

 

Some people try to make family nudity into something it really isn't. It's neither "sexy" or "weird."

For us it was really simple. My wife and I slept nude, left doors open; our daughter would often "take off" running through the house nude after bathing: so at first it was simple "casual nudity" as many families all over the world experience. After a couple of nudist resort trips, and my wife getting comfortable with extended nudity, we started thinking that since everyone was so comfortable with nudity, it might make sense to just stay nude at home. When we brought this idea to the "family table", our daughter jumped at the opportunity, so the decision was simple. No one had to wear clothes at home anymore. And so we started doing all the things "normal" families do; except we'd all undress first. It was fun and relaxing, not "weird or "sexy."

 

Yeah see, now that's a normal family nudity situation. Fun and relaxing is a good description.

 

Many years ago we had friends who would , one at a time, Go into the bathroom to get undressed from the days clothes and then get fully dressed again to go to bed.. I do not think that they ever saw each other changing clothes, showering or bathing. etc. And at that time they were married for a 5 - 6 years. If you want to consider something weird . I think that would be it. Peoples concepts about nudity in a family setting to me, seems way overboard at times to the point of being just out right strange

 

Nudism never ran in the family. Thank goodness. I don't want to see my family in the nude.

 

That's kind of how I feel. I don't care at all if certain people see me nude - my in-laws for example - but the thought of my biological parents seeing me nude sounds incredibly uncomfortable. But, I was raised in a home where the existence of genitalia was virtually unacknowledged.

I even try to avoid my own children seeing me naked, not for my sake - but for theirs. I don't want to see my parents naked, and I assume they don't want to see me either.

 

A couple of years ago my daughter (now in her twenties) and my wife (her stepmom) had a candid "woman-to-woman" conversation about nudism. I was surprised (her and I haven't talked about it in years) to find that my daughter not only clearly remembers her nudist preteens; but she actually looks back upon it with fondness and nostalgia. That was really reassuring to know.

Of course that has a lot to do with the fact that we started early; so she really never had to really think about it - until she hit puberty. She looked upon it as a fun and completely normal/natural. That might not happen if the kids are older and they're already fully accustomed to a "clothed life." But yeah; if you're going to go that "nudist family route", I recommend doing it before clothes becomes more normal to them than nudity.

 

Hey speak for yourself I would want to see them naked

 

My family has members who are nudists. I grew up seeing my parents naked because they both slept naked, and it was common for us to share the bathroom. My parents were not nudists when I was growing up. I became a nudist when I was 20 and in college. My mother took up nudism just before Covid, and one of my younger brothers, who hasn't officially come out as a nudist, loves being naked when he is here.

Your parents are your parents, whether they are clothed or naked. I love them for who they are and not for what I feel they should be. When I see them, I see my parents, not their clothed or naked bodies.

 

I have been a nudist since i was a teenager. Spoke about it with parents and sisters. As soon as they said it was oncomfortable I would put on clothes again. But apart from the first akwardness it never was an issue. Now we are more then 10 years later and everyone is used to it. But I can imagine not every family will accept this and best thing is to first talk about it.