you misconstrue the context of my words. i never said real rape doesn't exist. but i do believe false allegations about rape exist MORE than we (women) believe and if the numbers say 41%, that's pretty darn high. Any man that's been falsely accused of *date rape* by a woman who had regrets and remorse the next day because she was uncertain about what her *yes and no* meant, understands what i'm talking about. any woman who's done this herself should have shame.
my last statement that a REAL rapist won't let you leave. why is that stunning? if a guy is pressuring a woman into sex and she really doesnt' want to do it, she can get away from him. i've done it numerous times. i just did it the other with my nieghbors husband who was drunk and had me cornered in their kithcen ... because he wasn't a REAL rapist, i was able to wiggle away and leave the house. what is a man supposed to think when he's trying to get some poontang and the girls says *no* (giggles) and stays and continues letting him tough her .... does *no mean yes*?
the term "DATE RAPE" as set aside from RAPE BY STRANGERS came into being because, by the simple act of saying yes to a date casts doubt on whether or not the woman was raped in the first case. you're proof positive of that mentality. people who falsely accuse of any crime should be punished for it. but in one day you've managed to insult my mother, my sister and several other women i care about in two different threads dealing with rape and physical abuse. seriously, i have to say you're likely one of the most insensitive people i've ever seen on these boards.
so, i guess those REAL CHILD MOLESTERS don't let the kids go. those kids were willing. you're completely outrageous and utterly wrong. they're hinging their defense on people like you. that a girl will be too afraid, ashamed or completely disbelieved.
If it werent for the tits I'd swear this arguement was between a woman and a very sexist man. Something is very weird about this whole thing. It just dont jive.
clearly deviant here has NEVER been in a situation where someone else held all the cards and it's "go along to get along." bully for her. probably her mother's doing. god bless the mothers.
if i insulted your mother, your sister and any other women then your admitting they've falsely accused a man of rape. since i don't believe that's the case, how in the world can they be insulted?
really? read everything you wrote accusing those women of being to blame for their rapes. read your posts claiming that women who are abused are ALSO to blame for being beat the fuck up and you tell me how you HAVEN'T insulted huge swathes of good women everywhere.
let's not lump pedophiles and rapists into the same category because they're NOT the same thing. child molestors want to have sex with children and are sexually attracted to CHILDREN. rapists want to force sex on adult women. see the difference. the only similarity is they are illegal sex acts. the false accusers (41%) are hinging their offense on people like you.
and they both let their victims go. BIG similarity. blaming the victims of a crime for what was perpetrated against them is like saying the bank teller (to make it more worthy of sensitivity to you, i'll say it's a man) is shot by a woman bank robber (see how i'm trying to identify with you) is at fault because he was stupid enough to work in a bank.
don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. there's ENORMOUS NUMBERS of women who never report because of people like you, people who'll blame THEM for it, people who'll roll their eyes and yell "kobe bryant" all because a relative few were assholes. that's 59%, 59%!!!!! of accusations that aren't false, and all those women who never report because they just want to forget it. because of people like you.
I think that you need to take a step back and realize how incredibly hurtful your being. I think it would also be wise that you know the person that orginally started this thread was banned over comments like yours. Tread lightly here. There is NO FUCKING REASON for this thread to be reopened 4 years after it was started.
i'm a woman who used to be life's victim. raised by a feminist. every MAN was a rapist in her eyes. i used to view all men as predators because i was raised to do so and believe so. i was the worlds victim and my tit's and looks gave me all the power to sit back and justify victimization over and over when things didn't go my way. women like to brag about *pussy power*, even on this forum and they're not joking around about it. it's real. when i had a son and started researching feminist propaganda i realized how unfair and inflated their research is. if the feminists are lying and inflating their statistics what ELSE are they lying about. i'm disgusted by it. the op did us all a favor by dispelling the myth about rape accusations yet many of the women on this forum don't want to believe the facts, they choose to believe the myth even to the point of calling warren farrell a child molestor ... which is another common thing women do when they hear something they don't like ... name call and attempt to destroy someone's credibility. not very logical, and very emotional. my son will have to be more careful than my daughter in today's society because he will already been seen as the evil predatory rapist because of his gender .... even when he isn't.
and if you had daughters? how would you feel about it? if your daughter came to you with that hollow, shamed look in her eyes and said that her date raped her, would you look back at her with doubt in your eyes? all because she went out with the wrong boy? i took a major risk going out with dave that second time. i put myself entirely in his power. had he turned out to be anyone other than who he was, i coulda ended up a statistic. QUIT FURTHER VICTIMIZING THE VICTIMS simply because you're on a seperate crusade. as fair as it may be, stomping victims to a pulp and crushing them under your self righteousness does NO ONE any favors.