"faggot" is not a cool word...

Discussion in 'Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans, etc.' started by FatMan25, May 27, 2005.

  1. Obituary~Birthday

    Obituary~Birthday Member

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    'fag' means cigarette and 'faggot' or 'faggit' means someone who smokes a lot.


    just thought i'd mention it
     
  2. Seru

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    Umm, no.
    Fag means ciggerette. apart from that all other faggot/phaggot words are homophobic
     
  3. FatMan25

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    so can we talk about the original topic now? because i really was serious about what i said. i think words (especially when they are used as a weapon) should be used in a more understanding way. name calling will only make a situation worse. somebody on this thread claimed that words are not such a big deal. and that if somebody feels insulted or threatened by name calling, well, they are just plain weak, and need to grow a thicker skin. so is it ever cool to call somebody a faggot? and when/if that has happened to you, how did it make you feel inside? did you just let it go, and tell yourself its only a word? what was that saying from a long time ago? silence=death? so is it cool to just be quiet when somebody is calling somebody else a faggot as a put down?
     
  4. SpliffVortex

    SpliffVortex Senior Member

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    Now look at them yo-yo's that's the way you do it
    You play the guitar on the MTV
    That ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Money for nothin' and chicks for free
    Now that ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Lemme tell ya them guys ain't dumb
    Maybe get a blister on your little finger
    Maybe get a blister on your thumb

    We gotta install microwave ovens
    Custom kitchen deliveries
    We gotta move these refrigerators
    We gotta move these colour TV's

    See the little faggot with the earring and the makeup
    Yeah buddy that's his own hair
    That little faggot got his own jet airplane
    That little faggot he's a millionaire

    We gotta install microwave ovens
    Custom kitchens deliveries
    We gotta move these refrigerators
    We gotta move these colour TV's

    I shoulda learned to play the guitar
    I shoulda learned to play them drums
    Look at that mama, she got it stickin' in the camera
    Man we could have some fun
    And he's up there, what's that? Hawaiian noises?
    Bangin' on the bongos like a chimpanzee
    That ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Get your money for nothin' get your chicks for free

    We gotta install microwave ovens
    Custom kitchen deliveries
    We gotta move these refrigerators
    We gotta move these colour TV's, Lord

    Now that ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    You play the guitar on the MTV
    That ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Money for nothin' and your chicks for free
    Money for nothin' and chicks for free
     
  5. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    bully people? wtf are you talkin' about?
    and your a dumbass, listen to some of his newer shit
     
  6. FatMan25

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    damn, you're starting to remind me of a bad case of athlete's foot it took me forever to get rid of. whatever dude.
     
  7. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    fuck you too
     
  8. FatMan25

    FatMan25 Member

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    right. and this hit song came out around the time that boy george was so popular. so i think there is more than a little irony intended in the lyrics. plus some jealousy.
     
  9. FatMan25

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    damn, what an intelligent response. get over it.
     
  10. moonlightdelerium

    moonlightdelerium Senior Member

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    Phaggot, I've never seen it spelled that way before. I like it.
     
  11. Obituary~Birthday

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    well where i come from, people often use the word faggot as a smoker reference. i don't think ive ever actually heard it being used in a homophobic way
     
  12. stardust

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    either you come from a very remote corner of the uk where they have not caught up with modern language or you are trying to get a whole bunch of foreigners in trouble as soon as they come into this country by convincing them that its ok to go round calling people faggots.

    so for those of you who have never been to the uk, dont call anyone a faggot if you come here, even as a reference to a smoker. chances are you will cause alot of offence unless you happen to find this weird remote location that obituary~birthday inhabits.

    peace and love
    stardust
    xxx
     
  13. Disarm

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    I thought faggot meant bundle of sticks...
     
  14. Disarm

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    Ok so I went to the online Oxford English Dictionary.. I can't link it cause you've got to be a member of a subscribed learning institution or a paying member, so if you do link and the person can sign in it takes you to the main page anyway...(my experience anyway)
    There are so many meanings, I cut out the etymology cept for the relevant ones (so you can see where and when that meaning originated), as well as most obsolete meanings, if anyone wants these just ask:

    fag, n.1
    1. That which causes weariness; hard work, toil, drudgery, fatigue. colloq.
    2. a. In English public schools, a junior who performs certain duties for a senior. Also transf. a drudge.


    b. Cricket. A fieldsman. Obs.


    3. attrib. as fag-day, -partner (cf. fagging partner under FAGGING ppl. a.).


    if (navigator.appName == "Netscape" && parseInt(navigator.appVersion) == 5) { document.writeln(''); } else { document.writeln(''); } fag, n.3
    1. A ‘knot’ in cloth.
    2. A parasitic insect which infects sheep; a sheep-tick; hence a disease of sheep. Also, sheep-fag. dial. attrib. fag-water (see quot.).

    fag, n.4
    Slang
    a. The fag-end of a cigarette. b. A cheap cigarette. c. Any cigarette (the current use). Also attrib., as fag card, a cigarette card; fag hag (see quot. 1945). 1888 Sat. Rev. 30 June 786/2 They..burn their throats with the abominable ‘fag’, with its acrid paper and vile tobacco. 1893 Pick-me-up 14 Oct. 45/2 Stimulants he calls ‘booze’ and a cigarette a ‘fag’. 1898 Eng. Dial. Dict. s.v., Here [sc. at Redruth] we are often asked by youngsters to ‘chuck’ them ‘a fag’and whole cheap cigarettes are also often called fags. 1908 Church Times 7 Feb. 173/1 He gathered into a leather pouch the remains of his cigarettes, and left the room. ‘What does he do with all those fags?’ asked Conway. 1921 GALSWORTHY To Let III. viii. 284 The fag of Fleur's cigarette..fell on the grass. 1922 JOYCE Ulysses 70 Smoking a chewed fagbutt. 1928 GALSWORTHY Swan Song iv. 24 Cinemas, fags, and football matchesthere would be no real revolution while they were on hand. 1942 C. BARRETT On Wallaby v. 97 Cobbers of the men in detention had hit upon an ingenious method of smuggling fags to them. 1945 L. SHELLY Jive Talk Dict. 24/1 Fag hag, girl chain smoker. 1959 W. GOLDING Free Fall ii. 49 There was the business of the fagcards. We all collected them.

    fag, n.5
    (US Slang)
    = FAGGOT n. 6b.

    1923 N. ANDERSON Hobo vii. 103 Fairies or Fags are men or boys who exploit sex for profit. 1931 ‘D. STIFF’ Milk & Honey Route 205 Fagot or fag, a road kid with homosexual tendencies. 1932 HEMINGWAY Death in Afternoon 298 Maricón, a sodomite, nance, queen, fairy, fag, etc... Interested parties..are continually proving that Leonardo da Vinci, Shakespeare, etc., were fags. 1939 R. CHANDLER Big Sleep xii. 90 A stealthy nastiness, like a fag party. 1957 J. KEROUAC On Road (1958) III. v. 206 The car belonged to a tall, thin fag. 1964 ‘L. EGAN’ My Name is Death v. 49 You can't tell the fags from outside looks.

    ADDITIONS SERIES 1997



    fag, n.5

    Retain slang label before etym, but restrict U.S. label to a. Add: b. fag hag orig. U.S., a heterosexual woman who prefers or seeks out the company of homosexual men. Usu. derog.

    1969 Screw 18 Aug. 16/1 I'd hazard a guess that you're simply a Faggot's Moll, Fag hag, or Fruit Fly... A girl who enjoys the company and attention of males-who-go-to-bed-with-males is generally quite hung up about sex. 1972 B. RODGERS Queens' Vernacular 78 Fag-hags fall into no single category: some are plain janes who prefer the honest affection of homoerotic boy friends. 1978 J. KRANTZ Scruples vii. 206 Was she a fag hag, condemned to feel emotion only for men who didn't want women? 1983 E. PIZZEY Watershed III. xlii. 334 If they're single, they're gay. I don't fancy being a fag hag, though plenty of my friends do it. 1993 Guardian 22 July II. 14/5 The fag hag of yore could best be described as a woman who took on the more extreme mannerisms of gay men, such as campness and theatricalitya straight woman masquerading as a drag queen.

    fag, v.1 2. To do something that wearies one; to work hard; to labour, strain, toil.


    3. trans. To make (one) fatigued; to tire, weary. Said of both persons and things.


    4. In Public School phraseology. a. intr. To be a fag, to act as a fag; to perform certain services for another. to fag out: to go as fag, esp. in cricket, to field.


    b. trans. To make a fag of; to compel to do certain offices.


    5. Naut. (See quots.) Cf. FAG n.2


    6. slang. a. To beat. Obs. [? A distinct word; cf. FEAGUE.]


    b. To smoke; to supply with a cigarette. Cf. FAG n.4 U.S. slang.


    fag, v.2
    1. trans. To cut corn with a sickle and a hooked stick; = BAG v.2
    2. Comb., as fag-hook = fagging-hook.
    Hence fagging vbl. n.2 Also attrib., as fagging-hook, -stick.



    Faggot...

    faggot, fagot, n.
    1. A bundle of sticks, twigs, or small branches of trees bound together: a. for use as fuel.
    2. a. With special reference to the practice of burning heretics alive, esp. in phrase fire and faggot; to fry a faggot, to be burnt alive; also, to bear, carry a faggot, as those did who renounced heresy. Hence fig. the punishment itself.
    b. The embroidered figure of a faggot, which heretics who had recanted were obliged to wear on their sleeve, as an emblem of what they had merited.
    3. In wider sense. a. A bundle or bunch in general, e.g. of rushes, herbs, etc. b. fig. A ‘bundle’, collection (of things not forming any genuine unity).
    4. A bundle of iron or steel rods bound together.
    5. (See quot. 1851.)
    1851 MAYHEW Lond. Labour II. 227 He..made his supper..on ‘fagots’. This preparation..is a sort of cake, roll or ball..made of chopped liver and lights, mixed with gravy, and wrapped in pieces of pig's caul.
    6. a. A term of abuse or contempt applied to a woman (orig. dial.) Also in extended uses.
    b. A (male) homosexual. slang (orig. and chiefly U.S.).
    1914 JACKSON & HELLYER Vocab. Criminal Slang 30 s.v. Drag, Example: ‘All the fagots (sissies) will be dressed in drag at the ball tonight.’ 1926 WOOD & GODDARD Dict. Amer. Slang 16 Fagot, a chorus man; an effeminate man. 1936 J. DOS PASSOS Big Money (1937) 273 The first thing Marge thought was how on earth she could ever have liked that fagot. 1962 H. KANE Killer's Kiss xxvii. 207 Duffy was no queen, no platinum-dyed freak, no screaming faggot. 1966 New Statesman 18 Mar. 392/3 The American word ‘faggot’ is making advances here over our own more humane ‘queer’. 1970 New Yorker 28 Nov. 21/2 A gathering of homosexuals..a Jew, a Negro, a butch faggot, a nellie faggot.

    I couldn't find phaggot in the dictionary... Sorry that's so long. But basically fag and faggot have the widest meanings of any word, from someone about to be burnt to death as a heretic to bundle to smoke to beating someone..Man. There are no positive meanings of fag or faggot, the closest is a neutral/general term..which quickly became a negative term or carried negative implications..
     
  15. Obituary~Birthday

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    well maybe i do live in some strange land where people don't know shit. i mean when people call me a faggot i correct them in their use of the term, and remind them that it is a rather rude word meaning 'gay person'

    which i also am but shhh...
     
  16. SageDreamer

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    Talk about a thread that got *way* off topic...

    I'm not at all crazy about the word "fag(got)." And while I'm at it, please let me say that I'm not so keen on the other words people have mentioned in this thread.

    Using any word or name just to "piss people off" tells me some pretty negative things about people who do that. What's the benefit of pissing people off just to piss people off? If you absolutely, positively have to piss people off, do it in a clever and constructive manner.
     
  17. SpliffVortex

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    Now look at them yo-yo's that's the way you do it
    You play the guitar on the MTV
    That ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Money for nothin' and chicks for free
    Now that ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Lemme tell ya them guys ain't dumb
    Maybe get a blister on your little finger
    Maybe get a blister on your thumb

    We gotta install microwave ovens
    Custom kitchen deliveries
    We gotta move these refrigerators
    We gotta move these colour TV's

    See the little faggot with the earring and the makeup
    Yeah buddy that's his own hair
    That little faggot got his own jet airplane
    That little faggot he's a millionaire

    We gotta install microwave ovens
    Custom kitchens deliveries
    We gotta move these refrigerators
    We gotta move these colour TV's

    I shoulda learned to play the guitar
    I shoulda learned to play them drums
    Look at that mama, she got it stickin' in the camera
    Man we could have some fun
    And he's up there, what's that? Hawaiian noises?
    Bangin' on the bongos like a chimpanzee
    That ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Get your money for nothin' get your chicks for free

    We gotta install microwave ovens
    Custom kitchen deliveries
    We gotta move these refrigerators
    We gotta move these colour TV's, Lord

    Now that ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    You play the guitar on the MTV
    That ain't workin' that's the way you do it
    Money for nothin' and your chicks for free
    Money for nothin' and chicks for free
     
  18. SpliffVortex

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    See the little faggot with the earring and the makeup
    Yeah buddy that's his own hair
    That little faggot got his own jet airplane
    That little faggot he's a millionaire
     
  19. sm0key42o8

    sm0key42o8 Senior Member

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    It means a bundle of sticks
     
  20. SpliffVortex

    SpliffVortex Senior Member

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    See the little faggot with the earring and the makeup
    Yeah buddy that's his own hair
    That little faggot got his own jet airplane
    That little faggot he's a millionaire
     

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