It appears to me as though the men are into it, and the ladies not. Maybe the men should all get together and give each other facials :2thumbsup:
I have never done it, and I guess the reason for it in is how I was raised. I was raised to respect you parents, elders and to respect women. So what I am getting at is I feel that it is degrading to women to have that done to them. On the other hand I also feel it is OK as long as both parties are into it. I don't get anything out of watching it. If I was with someone and she asked me to do it, I would do it for her but I would never just do it without her wanting it done.
I've never intentionally done it, although once or twice a little exploding jizz landed on my partner's face. I get turned on when I see it in porn, but part of me is afraid to ask for thinking it would be an instant turn off to my partner plus I just feel that it is a little degrading to do it, and since I've only had sex a few times outside of a relationship, I would feel cheap and dirty to do that to someone I cared about. All that being said, I have this fetishistic obsession with seeing men put their penises on women's foreheads in porn. There is just something about it that drives me wild.
Exactly. I have had women ask, but wondered whether it was because they actually wanted it? Or because they thought that was what I wanted? Because of its prevalence in porn I wonder if women are really into or are just trying to please their man with what they see in porn.
When my husband and I tried it, it was mostly to see if there was something erotic about it we weren't getting. To me it's not a turn on for him to be jacking off; it makes me feel like an outsider. When he came, we both laughed about it, but neither of us was turned on. I much prefer for him to involve me in his orgasm.
Interesting point... usually when i have given a girl a facial she has jacked me off onto her face. So i guess they were more involved in the orgasm that way??
You know, I have never really understood the "it's degrading" thing. It is cum. It is part of sex (at least one hopes). What the hell difference does it make if it is in you or on you in some specific location? It is still on you and still just cum, and it didn't do anything to change you as a person or harm you or any other bullshit ( unless you get knocked up or are allergic). Perhaps there are self esteem issues? You either like it or you dont, but dergrading? I dont see it. But then I do enjoy a good shot to the face so what do I know
I think it has a lot to do with the age of the person or the time frame in which they grew up in. I had my teenage years in the seventies. What we saw on TV and the availability of porn then wasn't what it is today. Back then we didn't have the internet, most Mom and Dads didn't have many porn tapes and we didn't share everything on our phones. Todays generation has grown up with porn being very easily accessed, talked about alot more and you can watch anything they want on the computer or cell phones. That being said just about every money shot in porn is on some girls face and we just seem to think that it is acceptable or the norm. They always pull out and either shoot in some girls mouth or on her face, but I'll bet that if you were to poll the forums you would find that alot of us don't pull out and shoot on the girls face or mouth. If that is what the girls want then that is fine, it just isn't what I would do unless asked to do so.
That really has nothing to do with the point I was making tazer. It is not degrading to take a money shot unless the woman allows herself to think it is, which I think is all about self esteem. porn trends of the past dont matter. I want to know what exactly it is in the act itself that some people claim is so degrading. It is just cum, a natural part of sex. There is no difference where is hits you, it is still just a load of jizz. It is exactly like saying cowgirl position is degrading comared to missionary, which it is not. You like things or you dont, and neither makes it "degrading to women".
If you call some one a bitch or slut that is degrading, to treat them as one is the same. To splatter your bodily fluids on someones face to me is degrading, same as it would be to shit, spit or piss on someones face. If you feel that is not degrading, so be it. I am not sorry that I have respect for women.
Taze sweetie you are completely missing what I am saying. I think we may have to agree to disagree, it is clear you just aren't getting what I mean.
I'm not really onto facial (never done it, don't want to) but I have absolutly no problem with people who like it. A lot pf girls do like when the guy comes on their breast or back or butt... Why not the face, if that turn them on??
Yummy!! I love facials, I love cum. I love it in my pussy, anywhere on me... I love to swallow it. I just love to make a man cum!!! :2thumbsup:
Personally I prefer to complete my climax with maximal deep penetration, but I do recall that one of my partners always insisted that I ejaculate either in her mouth or over her face. When fulfilling the wishes of my partner over my own preferences, can that be considered as being degrading to the woman?
