F***** Up

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Grovesdrew, May 6, 2019.

  1. Grovesdrew

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    Hi everyone, I’m currently in have a fiancé and a daughter 11 months years old, mine and my patenters private life was struggling but I know was due to the stress of having a child and she’s runs her own business so I knew things like that would change but I done something stupid and messaged a local escort don’t know why I done this but all I done was messaged I never went or did anything but my partner has now knows and I feel like I’ve ruined everything I’m ashamed and embarrassed I love my family so much and just want to fix it. Any advice ? Thanks
     
  2. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Was this escort a 10/10 orrr?
     
  3. Nwcc75

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    Profusely Apologise and then grovel for the next twenty years.
     
  4. Driftrue

    Driftrue Banned

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    If she lets that ruin it, she wants it ruined. I'd be mad at you, but it's not enough to ruin a relationship over.
    Emphasise how much you understand why she is upset. Emphasise your love of her and your kid.
    Hope it works out for you.
     
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  5. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    The Best Way To Fix Something That Is Broken In My Experience.......Is A Tube Of "Araldite".....

    Don't Use The 5 Minute One.....Go For The Original 24 Hour Setting One.....Fixes For Life..... :D



    Cheers Glen.
     
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  6. morrow

    morrow Visitor

    Should a would a could a.... but ya didnt, life is going to have a ball with you now.
     
  7. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    And how does she know you messaged an escort?

    One of those ones that goes through your phone when you are asleep or in the bathroom?
     
  8. brack1936

    brack1936 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Just today I've been shocked by the oestrogen infused being which is the female of our species. This is why I'm single. Most of us either go with it or get out before we're in too deep and you're certainly in deep now!

    HOWEVER!

    You're also in what I would consider one very damn fortunate position. You've got a fiance and an 11 month old daughter. It's really special and I'm guessing that messaging the escort happened because of something very common. The woman has the baby and the bloke is climbing the walls because the woman is in a position where sex is the last thing on her mind. This is extremely common and something you should never be worried about. Contacting an escort probably wasn't a good idea and going to see one would be downright stupid but now the best thing to do is have a wank and spoil your lady. Not by wanking though.
     
  9. this is fun

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    Mate, you need to be honest and tell your partner why you did this.
    Honesty is the best thing you can use in a relationship.
    maybe get her some flowers and chocolates and apologise to her.
     
  10. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    5 Days Later......No 2nd Post......Methinks She Laced His Coffee with "Arsenic"......Tee Hee..... :D



    Cheers Glen.
     
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    Quite possible.

    Hope everything is ok with the OP and his family.
     
  12. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    If was was even real.
     

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