Eye Fucking

I do have a lot to work out with my sexuality. I noticed it's the military people who are mostly doing it. I went intot he post office today and had no problems and we went out to eat late last night and not one person lured at me.
I am mostly getting this feeling on base and at a couple of resturaunts where there was a loit of military...adn well Wal Mart, but what chick doesn;t get lured at in Wal Mart? There are some sleaze mc sleaze balls in there. Wal Mart is just a huge mix of everyone.
I feel more chilled out this morning. WMD made me realize that the sleazy guys are the equavilant of the guys on here who always hound for nudes. They exist everywhere and are harmless and need to go home to their wives or find one.

 

I don't think the rolleyes smiley does enough justice on how I feel about this thread.

Goodbye.

 

Jimmy Carter, "Eye Fucker":

http://www.arts.mcgill.ca/history/faculty/TROYWEB/Courseweb/JimmyCarterThePlayboyInterview.htm

 

That's EXACTLY what all of that is.

Finding male desire creepy is a way to feel "too good for you" - I think. And a way to attract attention to your goddam piety, like: "Look. I'm not a whore!"

Nobody cares about dat shit no more.

Paradoxically, I think women who avoid interaction with men are the most needy of the bunch. It's just a way to make men initiate (so you can pretend to be bothered and therefore too good for them).

Ugh. Such petty mediocrity. Princesses are stuck in the 19th century.

 

Not true. If I don't want to interact with men it's because I don't want to interact with men. If I do, I let them know it. You have some serious vagina issues.

 

Whatever.

Edit: It's one thing when you set your boundaries clearly, it's another to chronically pretend men don't exist and be constantly whimpering, and avoiding, and grimacing, and sighing, and looking bored and bothered, and making faces, and looking up to the ceiling like a dumb ass. All the while dressing up in clothes strictly made to draw attention to you naughty bits. Fuck outta here.

 

Hah.I take it back, don;t move to SoCal .

 

You do. You like to generalize all women. We are not all like that. Like not all men are scared of commitment and women with emotions.

 

Same here. I find that sometimes it seems to infuriate men when their complement didn;t make you sing a sunny little song. Some of them just seem to think their opinion is so damn important. I can;t stand over sexed or intrusive men. yuck get away, like on your own sweaty, bald horn dog island or some shit.

 

You're not the only woman in SoCal. Thank god!

 

I would do the same fuckign thing if women looked at me in a way that made me feel uncomftrable.
Not everyone deserves the effort of a response. I'm married, not to be rude, but there's not much other men can offer me.

 

I said, princesses. It's a kind of ideology of what femininity (and therefore masculinity) means. Thankfully, not all women are princesses.

Cheers.

Edit: It wouldn't really bothered me if they in fact minded their business. They say the do, but they don't. Their behavior is designed to attract attention passive-aggressively. It's an invasion of my space, also. I know when I woman is quietly reading a book, or in deep contemplation, or hurrying to work and genuinely does not want to be bothered. And I feel I know when they are playing games. Not all men are dumb orangutans.

 

Damn, this thread went south quick.

 

I don't care if the guy is the sexiest guy I've ever seen. If I don't feel like flirting I'm not going to. Besides Cherea has yet to find out that women worry about what other women think. If a woman gives me a compliment it means more to me than if a man gives me a compliment. Men are trained to lie to women to keep the peace.

 

I take that back. There is this one very interesting guy Andy works with, who I would lvoe to be friends with. That is abotu the only man in the past year besides my husband and family who I could give a flying fuck about or found interesting.

 

There are a few guys on the forums too, that are pretty interesting- I wasn;t considering the forums in my last statement.

 

see, I know my place. :cheers2: to you, tree hugger

 

Women there expect a lot though. be prepared. We're used to men with a lot of money who are very educated and witty. There's some tough competition down there for both sexes as the women tend to be beautiful there (which may be why I get eye fucked more here, than I did in San Diego, no 'competition' here).

 

Bitch please! Some naughty bits show through the baggiest of clothes. I get attention even when I wear a two sizes too big t-shirt and jeans. Oh yeah that's sexy. :cheers2:

But as I stated earlier I don't care how guys look at me....as long as I don't feel intimidated. Some guys do give the creeper leer. Most don't but some do.

 

This is so true! and funny.