I tried experimenting with anal toys for the first time two nights ago, something I've really wanted to get into. (I've never done actual anal sex either.) Started with some butt plugs. It was great. I felt essentially no pain and was mostly comfortable the whole time. But yesterday my asshole was super swollen and hurt quite a bit. I had wanted to try again last night, but I didn't because i didn't want to irritate it further. Anyone have advice on starting out with toys? My fantasy right now is to work up to much larger things, but I obviously want to do it right.
A lot of lube especially if you’re going to be pumping in and out quickly.Gets a lot of friction going that can be unpleasant if not lubed enough .
I'm with Siss, LUBE LUBE LUBE #1 rule. #2 Don't go too big right away. #3 SLOWLY and easily. Learn to take a nice slow breath out and relax your sphincter muscles, that helps a lot.
as a guy, sometimes I find just using the smaller butt plugs and then just gently getting a rythm going and riding them on a hard chair against my prostate can be a nice little hobby. I find the big plugs can get quite sore after a while, and when u are being fucked your partners cock only reaches deep into you intermittently and flexes better than a dildo. And for us guys it's the prostate sensations along with the sub service of a cock and body with pulse. Simon
My wife and I are into anal play. Like others have said lube well. I can take an XXXL plug but I usually don’t keep it in long. If I’m not careful I can now place an XL plug entirely inside of me base and all. We discovered with a large pug with a very flexible base that we could lose it inside of me. Make sure that you have one with a good firm base. Hospital trips are not fun. Luckily I got mine out easily.
