I hate how I set my expectations too high and when I'd rather complain than learn from my unmet expectations, someone always must let me know that is exactly what I'm doing. It catches me off guard every time, goddamnit.
I expected it and my expectations were sorely unmet. I'm upset, and most importantly, I learned nothing... nothing!!
My expectations were disappointed when I listened and went with the gang to a new lobster place in Cape Cod this year for Saturday night...and did not go back to the place I found and have gone to for the last few years....new place is over rated...much to do about nothing, too expensive...waited an hour before order was even taken(I think they like to sell lots of drinks before people order....smart business...but I did not order any drinks, so I was just sitting there hungry for an hour...lots of other people drank, though...as the place was right next to motel and no one had to drive...it was a walk over).... and I was not happy with the food...never again....I will go to my place next year, even if I go alone.... so the disappointment is really not listening to my own instincts and wanting to be part of the group this year...the last years they all went to my place.....but someone else took charge of decision this year.