Hello. I would like to ask you guys about one thing. For about 2 years me and my boyfriend have been broadcasting on online cams, you know sites like ourlivechat.com or chaturbate.com. We spent so much our free time on them that I think we are a little addicted. Do you think we should stop doing? Can it lead to some serious disorders if we continue that life style?
Too much of anything, especially if it consumes you, can certainly be detrimental to things like your health and relationship. Are you neglecting other things you should be doing? You have to decide for yourselves if you need to set limits on your online time.
Should we stop spending our free time broadcasting on cams? I say no, we should spend more time on cams. We should improve our performance and quality of backdrops. Remember that not just any music is optimum, select something sensuous. This can be an art form, like music videos, except your personal sex show, come on people apply yourselves and improve your cam performance.
Yes you certainly can, just like anything else. I also can have a problem with spending to much time on cam broadcast sites. Especially with Covid. Working 6 hours a day instead of 8 means a lot more time being alone at home. So I busy myself doing other things and staying offline.
Well that is great in principle, but not exactly realistic. There are a number of cam/chat sites out there that are free. But they are all 98% dudes. The hot women - figured out a long time ago that they can make real coin charging for it. Which is why the free ones are 98% men.
The desire to be seen and the desire to display oneself and one's body has been going on since primitive man. Therefore, there is nothing strange about it. We are all inclined to want to demonstrate ourselves. I only support this. We especially liked showing off our bodies when we were drunk. My girlfriend and I decided to get a job in the porn industry, and it wasn't embarrassing at all because we were constantly under the influence of alcohol and drugs. My girlfriend was the first to get worried when she realized we were both at rock bottom. She asked Abbeycare in Scotland for help for both of us, and it took months of rehab for us to get back on track.
You're describing that it's doing some harm in your life, so maybe you can look at that and find a way to enjoy the erotic pleasure of it all without interfering with other areas of your life. Then you can continue to enjoy it more and more. For instance, you can schedule a date, have rituals leading up to it (like teasing, getting new toys or lingerie, or even abstaining from sex) and then have special sex after the broadcast, say the day after, to relive the sex without going back on cam.... You might also pick some 'fans' for special, limited viewing at certain times, again, to keep the habit contained a little.
