Fucking chicks at work is the problem. It causes so many problems at work and off work later. Women see you at work, how you do. Then if you can put the work solo on her off work it changes everything. Not only is she seeing how you make money, but she knows how you treat her. Shit will drive you crazy. Don't answer the phone, mute them on texts. Check it when you can. Mute tell she goes away or you talk once a week to remind her your here, fucking is available of course. It's hard as hell, im surrounded by awesome mexican women. Just fucked the ex last tuesday for her birthday. I met her at work in december last year. Fucking her made her feel used but I told her. No texts from her in a few days. Maybe it worked. Careful dipping your pen in company ink.
i have no advice. i'm a poor judge of humans. but i see no point in hostility, unless its to prevent or avoid annoyance. and even then, i think consideration comes first, because the amount or lack of it, is what makes our world (the human part of it) how it is to live in.
Its not judgement of humans. Its dealing with common situations of dealing with women. This is how it is to live in. Do something right they follow, do something wrong they follow someone else. Fuck someone at work, you don't know who is following what. You want to know cause you don't want anyone to find out. Soon you have the chance to fuck em all.
sorry i fail to follow your logic. gender here is not the special case. even relationships aren't unusually so.
Gender shouldn't be a specific case. I'm a strait man who talks about experience with women. Nothing specific about that. If I was part brown, little black, 2/5 white, with green eyes small feet and hands the size of hammers would that be specific for a relationship? Fucking girls at work is complicated. This kind of psychology might be out of your zone.
That's kind of a bummer. Unrequited love is one is one of the more painful emotions in the human experience, imo. Especially when the other person can't seem to move om.
Dont go in the bathroom with her? Or raise up, take your shirt off, twist it around your head like a helicopter? Well, those are the only two NC references I can think of
Now I wanna know the NC reference as well! Deadly curious..! On a more serious account: yes dude, it really sounds as you think: she was there for you, not work. You're pretty clear about the situation so I can only say: you're on the right track dealing with her. How sad it may be for your ex, the best way to handle it is ignore as long as bearable. If not bearable, be clear yet not mean in telling her how it unfortunately is gonna be. Maybe, if you feel like it and she gets over you romantically, you could stay friends. Good luck! Seriously, such a phone call would disturb me my whole day too
If you aren't interested, don't give her the time of day. She's trying to test you and gauge your interest. I've done similar with an ex and he engaged me and gave me all sorts of crazy hopes. Blame it on hormones, whatever, but you made a good choice ignoring that call.
