Ex posting nude pics online.

PMA' Positive Mental Attitude works everytime, kudos for you

Also rest assured, his buddies will view this as a douchbag thing to do and his future female friends "god help them" will also view this as a very douchebag thing to have done and will likely think twice before letting him snap any photos. I would think these actions if carried out would harm him more... plus your a cutie... nobody is gonna care.

 

How do you have an attitude that isn't mental?

 

As mean as this may sound, now would be the perfect time to get those pictures back. Go over to his house, hang out, treat him well, ask for them back. Be friendly, if he's as melancholy as you describe, then he's most likely emotionally unstable and might feel bad when he sees you in person, he might hand over the pictures.

If he doesn't hand over the pictures I'd recommend you cuff his goddamn head and call him a child. If this is the option you take however, don't be surprised when people start telling you they saw you naked on the internet. I'm sure you had heard of this happening before the photos were taken.

Moral of the story is- Always possess your own nude pictures of yourself. And if you feel the need to take such pictures in the first place, try and obtain them when you first sense the relationship is headed south.

 

I just want to know if you'll let us know, if you come across them.



It's a good thing that you have gotten over it and won't let his childishness affect you.

 

JUDGE "You are hereby sentenced to murder of your spouse, how do you plead?"

DEFENDANT "guilty, your honor. But in my defense, he was acting like a child."

JUDGE ".... well why didn't you say so!? Case dismissed!"
:biggrin:

 

I second that motion. I mean, as long as you're ok with your body & actions and all and you've realised just how little it would bother you etc.

 

Am I the only one that thinks the pictures/videos/etc are already out? If he's advertising it on facebook and his friends are making encouraging remarks it's almost 100% that he has already passed them to close friends and they are out there circulating now and will eventually be on the mainstream internet. Also this accomplishes his goal without him being directly responsible because he can always blame it on a friend.

In my opinion a woman should never let a guy take pics/videos of her in the act and not account for them or hold onto the evidence themselves... just asking for it.

Does it really matter that much if they are out there circulating on the internet already? No, probably not.

But i can tell you for most men finding out that their wife/mother of their children/etc has porn pics on the internet is a nightmare scenario. Most men, not all...

So then it becomes - do you tell future boyfriends about this? Or just hope it never comes up and is never discovered? If it's discovered without you bringing it up then it will probably be worse than if you did. If you do bring it up on your own do it early on in a new relationship... it will be harder for the guy to deal with the more into you he is.

 

File a police report.

I agree, dont ever let anyone take nude pics or videos of you. Everytime I send someone my nude pic, my face wasnt in it ever. If it was a video and my face was it.. it was in my hands only. Next time be careful.

This guy sounds lonely and unstable mentally. I think you need to go see him and talk to him, be friends with him, get him into a stable level.. you two were egaged at a point you should know his emotions and actions and what works with him.

 

Sentenced to murder your spouse? I think a lot of women would go for that!

 

If there is nothing more you can do, take the opportunity to explore your exhibitionist side.. Clearly you were attractive enough for him.. Additionally you are attractive enough for me to feel comfortable showing you off to everyone without fear of anyone telling him he was lowering his standards by being involved with you..

If anything it sounds like he might be insecure and thinks he has to prove to everyone that he could be intimate with someone as attractive as you.. No matter what, the silver lining is that its an reason to feel sexy

 

I think.... you should post pictures of yourself here so if we ever come across them on the internet we'll know its you and not to look at them...






WHAT?

 

a man comes home to his wife, with a box of chocolates, some wine and a lovely selection of flowers. He has no reason, other than to say 'you are special, the light in my life'

a woman is now guilty of chopping her husbands head off with an axe. she hated coconut.

 

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