Hey guys, well... I'm going through a weird stage lately. I broke up with my bf almost 2 years ago and since then i couldn't let him go. But what worries me most is the fact that I often fantasize about him i mean when I jerk off. He's in a relationship right now and every now and then, i stalk his facebook account and i see the pics of him and his bf... and I jerk off to it... I fantasize about them fucking like I sort of like to see 'em fucking. Has enyone gone through something like this before? is this just a severe obsession or is it just normal? help! thanks.
Yup. There is nothing wrong with having sexual fantasies. In a manner of speaking, we never really part ways totally with the people who meant something to us, in particular, in a sexual way, even when they are gone out of our lives for a long time. Great sex never gets forgotten. But those are fantasies. You want to let go in real life terms, and look for someone else who is certainly different but may be even more satisfying in his own different ways. Living in the past as in not moving on is highly counterproductive. Free yourself of all the negativity, and let your ex enjoy his life. You have got your life to live, and it is high time for you to move on. You know that anyway, don't you? Get going. Meet other guys, make new friends, discover the joys of novelty, and lead a good, fulfilled life. KD
