"Every man wants a threesome, if they say they don't, they are lying"

No, my husband def does not want a 3 some... in the past it was offered to him (with other girls that he did find attractive) and he was just not interested...

 

no i dont like 3 some and its the truth

 

It can be intimidating for men. Some are nervous enough with one, let alone multiples.

 

Nice avatar amale, lol.

Anyway, my partner and I were talking about this the other night. She asked me what I thought of it, adding that she wouldn't be too comfortable with the idea at this time. And honestly, I'm with her on that. I seriously doubt that I'm even ready for it emotionally. I'd get too jealous to see my partner with someone else. We don't know how we'll feel about it in the future, but right now, we can't see ourselves inviting a third person into the picture. It would complicate everything. We'd rather focus on each other right now.

BUT, in the novel I'm working on, threesome, foursome, so on so forth, take place. Like many have already said, these things are often mere fantasies. just because we fantasize about them doesn't necessarily mean we want them to occur for real.

 

I would do it. Why not? I've always been turned on at the thought of two chicks giving me oral at the same time. The whole thing just sounds like a great time but since I've never done it I have only my imagination to go on but would jump at the opportunity to find out what it's like in real life.

 

i would definitely not be able to do it with my wife. i couldn't stand to see her with another guy, and i think i would feel way too uncomfortable having sex with another woman in from of her, even if she said she didn't mind.

if i wasn't married though, and it was only about the sex for everyone, i would do it for sure.

 

When I was 18 I was offered a threesome from an ex, my heart dropped because of the thought what if I came too soon from being riled up. Nothing happened except me marrying my wife and my sex life doin down.

 

Assuming this is about MFF due to OP. Yes, all guys want a threesome. All guys want an orgy of women. No surprise there. Of course wanting it may compete with their desire for monogamy based on personal philosophy. The ones that say they don't want it are either lying, insecure about satisfying multiple women, or insecure about the relationship.

 

It makes no sense that you say that ALL men would, and then mention three categories of men that wouldn't..

 

No, not all men want a MFF threesome, let alone an orgy. You're simply assuming that men who don't are, and in your own words, "either lying, insecure about satisfying multiple women, or insecure about the relationship". How can you be so sure? There are plenty of secure men who are also secure enough about their monogamous relationships to say they don't want multiple partners. Just because they don't want threesomes doesn't mean they are automatically liars, or insecure in any way.

 

hmmm Ive worked at two of the biggest sex partys in europe and to be honest being in a threesome isnt something I dream about. We have a room where couples or threesomes can go and have sex and you can watch them and mostly its couples, you do get threesomes or gangbangs or group sex but I think the majority of people prefer one partner .

you do have people who have one partner then find another partner then another partner but generally not so much two people at one time .

If I dream its about one partner and I'm being honest

 

I do know more women who prefer more multiple partners in reality than men in reality

 

Threesomes are great, but it's not something you do all the time. I have a great relationship and we are very secure, once in a while we like to spice it up. It all depends on the couple and what they enjoy. If every one liked the same things, life would be very boring.

 

When I was younger I likely would have said yes. But as I have aged I would probably say no.

 

No, not attractive to me. A pleasant "naked weekend" with my honey sounds much better. Why are most of the participants in such activities "sporting a few x-tra pounds"?

 

I really doubt that people being interested in threesomes has anything to do with how much they weigh!

 

@ post Nr. 77.........Oh, Really? From most "swinger" type activities that I have witnessed over the years , lean attractive folks are a rarity . Several occasions come to mind , one, in my undergrad years. A group of obese co-eds had sub par males lining up at their dorm for favors. Another memory of "sandwiches" with fatties being offered. Really? Please. Don't you guys think if these women had something to offer they would market themselves more effectively?

 

So you have been an active member of swingers groups and have first hand experience in the lifestyle?

 

not every man, woman or child can be put in a box labeled "just like every other human".

 

You seem to have been going to the wrong places I dont think the majority are overweight or unattractive you have some swinging events that vet people, but even without that I know quite a lot of people who are stunning that go to swinger events .

And is it about marketing yourself more effectively some men and women like sex and one man or women isnt enough, it may not be about finding a life partner , you have women who dont want a relationship they may be career orientated or already have a husband but just want more sex. .

 

I would not be interested in the afore mentioned women. My sexual world is pretty much limitless with the right person. From what I have seen , I'm not missing a thing. My interaction was by invitation and curiosity made me check it out. Disgust made me go home to smoke a fattie not do one or many. Being less physical many attendees seemed to be enjoying themselves ; I just can't have sex with a woman I fin unattractive.