I shall start for now. I taught: my first gf how to give hj and bj A friend how to give bj, but then she secretly taught herself to deepthroat How to give edging My fwb slow penetration. Double wow for both of us A friend how to let herself go and experience breast orgasms A new fwb that delaying penetration can be quite rewarding after I was taught things too, that could be a different thread
Can I just kindly remind people when posting in this thread to be mindful of any quoted ages . Life on HIP starts at 18 A big thankyou from me for your co operation
I was taught a LOT by my ex eons ago. I taught my wife quite a bit in our early years. It seemed like forever before she gave me a bj. I asked why, and she said her ex said she wasn’t good. We worked on that. She became great. With my guidance we opened up our marriage/sex life. Erotica, porn, toys, anal, pegging, mfms. I miss those days.
I showed a few women how to have sex for fun. It was hard for a few, just couldn't understand, having sex and not truly loving the person.
When we got married, my new wife was already experienced in sex, mostly straight sex with a few blow jobs with other men. She had never experienced a man making love to her with his mouth. I convinced her that it was something I wanted to do. it only took one lesson for her to learn how to receive and totally enjoy the experience.
I'm in my second marriage and have given instructions to both wives on how to suck my cock in a manner to really get me off. A great blow job requires more than just using your mouth, it requires using your tongue, lips, hands, and fingernails to provide the ultimate blowjob. Both were very good students too.
Well, and friend and I were in a bar one night with a few other women. She was my partner for many of my adventures with men back during my promiscuous period. The subject of "swallowing" as it pertains to blow jobs came up. My friend and I proceeded to encourage the other women in that fine art, discussing what it felt and tasted like etc. and basically encouraging them to go forth and perform said act. It was funny at the time, and still is. Were just slightly older, and way more experienced than the other women were.
Okay cool . I have heard of the activity but not heard it called that . So for the benefit of others see below What is breath play? The term “breath play” refers to any sexual activity that involves the restriction of breath, says licensed marriage and family therapist Christen Lozano Often, in a BDSM Relationship , a dominant will be restricting the breath of a submissive, though you don’t need to have a dom-sub dynamic to engage in it. Perhaps the most well known form of breath play is choking, but there are actually many forms, says Good Vibrations staff sexologist Carol Queen. Breath play may simply involve someone telling a partner to hold their breath. It could also mean covering someone’s mouth and/or nose with your hand or a tool like a gas mask or hood. (As you might suspect, this is dangerous—more on that below.) Some might even consider submerging in water during sex a type of breath play. Breath play is sometimes known as erotic asphyxiation; autoerotic asphyxiation is when someone cuts off their own air supply during masturbation. This act, by the way, has a long and peculiar history : In the 1700s, onlookers observed hanging victims getting erections, and some doctors began using asphyxiation as a solution to impotence. What’s the connection between suffocation and sexual arousal? Breath play may be arousing to some because cutting off the brain’s oxygen supply can cause feelings of lightheadedness, says Lozano. “The body's natural response to lack of breath—signaling danger to the body—is to release hormones such as adrenaline and endorphins,” she explains. “The release of these hormones can contribute to heightened sexual stimulation.” In partnered sex, some people are turned on by the power dynamics involved in breath play or enjoy that it’s an exercise in trust. An excerpt from Mens Health Not something I can honestly recommend for beginners .
to be onest, there are many ways you can play with, I'm not into chocking or forced air cutting, but even just holding breath while masturbating or challenging to do it doing mutual pleasure could provide stronger and much more intense orgasms More "hard" games requires more skills and are not in my radar at the moment, but I was lucky to have some of my partners willing to try the soft way!
So you led a panel discussion about encouraging swallowing to finish off a blowjob. Those young women must have looked up to you as an outstanding role model. The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret
I have taught a few friends, GFs FBs and a platonic friend, everything I know which I like to do. Total sexual openness to share our collective knowledge. I've taught them that receiving oral can be better than they had experienced up to then. I've taught some how to give oral, how to masturbate me and how to masturbate themselves successfully. And they have taught me things like how to do anal such that they really enjoy it. Some, primarily those whom I have photographed, they have taught me the various ways they masturbate and get off using their toys and have shown me better ways to give oral (better than I was aware of), which I have subsequently passed on to others who I had previously 'taught'. Mostly in real life and in relation to self masturbation, quite a lot online through video or live video calls. I love to learn and also to talk about sexual likes and dislikes to try to extend their range (and mine) of sexual activities and pleasures.
This can be the hardest lesson to learn. That sex can be as much, if not more fun, and equally rewarding with strangers. The belief that you need to love someone to be able to truly enjoy sex with them is a myth.