i've done it before. it was about 9 years ago, and back then i just used america online instant messenger. just did a search for online females in the area, sometimes did the keyword spit or swallow. probably 100's told me to go screw myself, but there were 4 occassions of getting head, and one of those also led to sex. the first one was with this girl who was kind of big, and i don't mean anything bad to bigger women, but she thought she was "the best" and she was far from it. i ended up having to finish for her, met up with her a second time and it was better, maybe it was anxiety, cuz it was behind a building in my car. the third time it started with some head and ended in me banging her in a field. that was my first and only time to have sex. the next (and unfortunately last) was at the girl's house, ended with me giving her a facial. she was the best. unfortunatley aol no longer has the search for online members, and stuff is set up more like myspace, and harder to get someone's attention through emails.
I have, we met at a beach, got a long, smoked some, I spent the night with her that day and we didn't have sex, then we hooked up again and went to her apartment, chilled, smoked, got nasty with each other, it was pretty good, she knew what she wanted and I liked that, she was actually closer to my age but I forget, she was actually educated as well. We kept it up for a while, we hung out with friends, went out, but it never got solid, I wasn't into her like that, but we definitely had good times.
To BFTrick: I just read your post about whether or not you think it is wrong to rape a sleeping/unconscious person. In answer to your query that all the respondents had said that it was wrong, but did not offer any reason as to WHY it was wrong, I will illuminate. One person's idea of sex is distorted when he/she views rape as sexual. Rape is an act of violence, not sex. Victims of violence may suffer tremendous amounts of traumatic stress for years after being victims of/ or witness to, extreme trauma or violence. Many of these effects are still unknown. In a person who has been drugged and "date-raped", there may be lingering depression, thoughts of suicide, general unease, social anxiety and phobias or fears. These effects have yet to be studied extensively, as drugged date-rapes are underreported and a relatively recent phenomenon. Also to consider, though a victim may show no "signs" of physical affect, such as pregnancy, STD's, or sustaining trauma to the body as a result of the rape, ie: tearing, soreness or bruising---physical harm may be acute. With certain date-rape drugs, the neurological effects can be devastating, or fatal. The dosage required to render a person unconscious is very close to fatal dosages in many drugs. In addition, some inhalants are carcinogenic or can cause renal or other organ failure. These affects are of course, in addition to, the very real and debilitating psychological and emotional effects on the rape victim, whether they were conscious or unconscious. Does that answer your question? It is very difficult for many to be vigilant with data and facts when a question like yours invokes an emotional response. Rape or the violation of a persons body without their expressed consent is wrong for these reasons.
Craigslist is great for women (and gay men) in the casual encounters section, but sucks for men seeking women. (At least in Los Angeles). The ads are all fake. Question, why do guys always put pictures of their dicks? Do they think girls like that? Occasionally, you may run across a convincingly real-looking ad from a girl, but there is also adultfriendfinder or something like that, which I have never tried. P.S> did you get my response, below to your older thread? I'm not judging, just answering.
Yes, I've definetely enjoyed hooking up for anonymous/1st time encounter sex w/ both males and females. Every single time has been fun for me and my partners as well.
I have twice.. the first time was awesome.. the second time - i realized that alot of men are very selfish sexually.. he got off, i didn't.. and he bored me... it sucked..
on craigslist. It was good. Always a one time thing. never see the people again. I like to make it impersonal.Craigslist is great for all that though
I've never met anyone online and had sex. But I've been involved in anonymous pick-ups. One was in a laundromat late one night. The guy was very sweet and we drove to a dark street overlooking the city and had sex in his car. And then there was the time on the Greyhound bus. I was on the way home after visiting a friend in another city. It was very late when I got on the bus, which was full. The only available seat was next to a guy who was asleep. I thought he was adorable and I "accidently" slumped against him as I pretended to be asleep myself. He halfway woke up then, and later really woke up when I started fondling his crotch. I unzipped him and sucked him for a while, then he pushed down my jeans and fucked me from behind right there on the seat. I was really afraid the other passengers would wake up and see us, but no one did. He got off the bus at a stop long before I did, and of course I never saw him again. That was sooooo hot. Remembering this makes me want to do it again ...
i've met up with three guys online and one girl. my first time was with some 30 year old guy i was talking to on an adult chat (babblesex.com -- great site!), he lived in florida. we both agreed to meet up and fuck around. he said he had a house in tennessee (my state) and it was a few towns away and he was going to be there for a few weeks. i had a friend cover up for me and say that i was staying at her house for a couple weeks and i went to his house. he had always seemed like the stalker rapist type from the first time i talked to him, but i didn't care. he had the same fetishes that i had, basically bondage, torture, rape, roleplay, all the strange kinky shit that you only see on those really fucked up pornos. xD i show up at his house and the guy had a complete "torture chamber" deal going on in his basement. so, we fucked around with that. he chained me, whipped me, tied me to fucking machines and ran them for hours. we had a fun few weeks together. he left me tied to a fucking machine one night, my **** was sore as hell afterwards, but it was fucking hot! it was a very kinky and fun experience. i'd love to do that again.
I have seen those machines on HBO several times, but you are the first person I've heard admit to using one. I don't know much about BDSM, but I do find the stories interesting. Maybe you can start a thread on it in the Real Kinky section. Nobody has done that in a long time.
Just call it favorite BDSM practices. Tell your favorites, and then we'll see who else will post. I shouldn't start it because I don't do S&M. What's it like being a kinky girl in Tennessee? I've heard it is a very conservative state, except for Memphis.
As geeky as it sounds i hooked up with woman through a MMORPG. I'll admit it was a little sketchy at first but we have had a few visits since them. It's kinda cool talking with someone online about it then actually following it through.
Did it one time, probably about four years ago. We went down on each other where she came twice - saying she'd never had two in one session, probably bullshit, but oh well - I love clit sucking. Then she sucked me off, couldn't get me to cum - which no woman has managed to make me shoot from a blow job alone - so I jerked it close to orgams, then let her suck on it and unloaded my release which she swallowed completely. Yes I know, this isn't much of a story. She wasn't all that great looking either. A little chunky but not much. After that, she called me out the ass but I ignored her since it was initially decided to be simply a romp in the hay for the hell of it.