Ever get caught perving?

We all take an ole look every now and then. Or maybe it's just me, I don't know! Anyway this happened to me twice within the last year. It made me realise that this was perhaps inevitable. Each time I've taken a good look since these occasions, I quickly realise how close I am to being caught and quickly stop. There could often be someone looking at you as you're looking.

The thing is if it's going to be a quick glance there's no point in doing it. You'll only drive yourself crazy. You need to take a good proper look or not look at all. Whereas I like to take a good 5 second stare and let a flood of thoughts cross my mind. I guess that's what happens when you give up porn!

Once I was in the gym when on holidays, I got distracted by the beauty of a girl. I suspected she might have noticed me looking. At one point I'd a great view with her standing in front of me talking to her friend. Then suddenly she turned around really fast... too fast for me to turn my head, so I only had time to turn my eyes. So when she turned around were looking to the side with my head facing towards her. I suppose she knew, but she didn't catch me.

Another time I guy caught me looking as I looked back the street to see the girl that just passed me. I was in such a awe that I gave a sneer. Then as I turned back around, some dude at the side of the street caught my eye and winked at me and sort of laughed to himself.

 

If you stopped being a pussy and just got a hooker you wouldn't have to perv ya old perv.

 

I'm abnormal in that I don't really have sexual thoughts. In school we were taught that boys had a sexual thought, on average, every fifteen seconds. I don't have them at all.

 

What does 'giving a sneer' means here? Seriously wondering!

And to answer your question: I am thankfully not perceived as a creep. So when someone catches me looking at her or someone else I just own up. Maybe that's part of the reason I'm not perceived that creepy or pervy?
I don't feel like or identify as a perv, also if i try to look objectively at myself. I mean a thorough look in public is not the same as secretly peeking through a window or being on a panty hunt. Staring makes most women uncomfortable so I don't do that consciously.
Last time I stared at someone (which indeed made him uncomfortable and annoyed) it was a man and I was tired in a line at the supermarket and saw a comedian i knew from tv in another line. He noticed i was staring and stared back. Then I realized what i was doing

I'm not sure if one or many visits would stop a perv from perving But I agree, it's worth a try :-D
He probably had perving tendencies he gave into before he stopped watching porn too.

 

the rest of us have a sexual thought every 14 seconds. you brought up the average.

 

Haven't had a sexual thought all day long.

 

Is the thought of not having sexual thought a sexual thought in its own right?

 

My dad caught me watching a lesbo movie once.

 

Nah I don't think so ,I have never stared at a woman but I have sneaked a quick glance upskirt but don't think I have been caught.
Cheers

 

Upskirt. Nice. Like when they're walking up stairs and you're just like hmm I just wait down here a minute.

 

When I worked behind bar in strip club I liked to watch the dance floor and runway areas. Wasn't really perving though, it was a good show.

 

ummm..yeah..a glimpse of panty can make a blokes day you know..

 

Yeah, I know.

 

Maybe not just blokes then eh..
Cheers

 

No not at all. I'm not even gonna say what I'm into.

 

And from that moment on he thought you were a lesbian

 

LOL.......



Cheers Glen.

 

You've stared at a woman, and you get caught every time

 

which was a reassurance :-D

 

I watched that season of the X factor, she kept trying to sleaze on to Simon Cowell, dropping hints for him to renew her contract, get miffed if one of the auditioners was female and younger than her. It was awkward. Dont think she got invited back the next year